RedBook
EscortsPremier Adult Entertainment Community HOME | ADS | FORUM myredbok
Subject: "Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?" Archived thread - Read only
 
  Previous Topic | Next Topic
printerPrinter Friendly view     picviewPic view    
Conferences > Northern California > General > Topic #43794
Reading Topic #43794

orgasmic
Member since 10-Oct-05
55 posts
14-Apr-10, 02:52 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to orgasmic orgasmic profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
"Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
 
   orgasmic

I have this theory that men really dont understand how women think as far as their sex drive goes. We THINK we do, but we dont.

For example, I was single for 4 years (separated at the time) and I noticed that many women would post in the women seeking men dating sites, that they DID NOT want to get pics of mens dicks. After dating for a while it was explained to me that men would often send replys to the dating site ads with dick pics attached, as if the women WANTED to see the goods. BUT WOMEN DONT want to see your schlong. This is a typical male thing to do, because that is how WE think.

Men also think that women should always be horny, because we are. When in fact women lump ALL their feelings into one big mass, including their libido, then they decide in that moment whether they want sex. If you have been a prick recently, they wont want any sex with you since your have hurt her feelings....SEE

Women are complicated and emotional.

  Alert Top

 
Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic

arbiez_temp arbiez_temp rating
Charter Member
2583 posts, 47 feedbacks, 88 points
14-Apr-10, 03:09 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to arbiez_temp arbiez_temp profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
1. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
I fully agree with you, but I must say that some like revenge sex as well which throws your 2nd to last thought out of the window.

I'll also add that some men can be complicated as well. (self-realization)

  Alert Top

likkit likkit rating
Member since 13-Aug-08
837 posts, 20 feedbacks, 37 points
14-Apr-10, 03:14 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to likkit likkit profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
2. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #1
 
Well, I consider myself a complicated and deeply emotional individual, ...and the only time I DON'T want to fuck, is an interval of about five minutes just after I just cum.

Oh crap, I need ANOTHER new keyboard...

  Alert Top

Chemistry Chemistry rating
Member since 24-Jan-10
505 posts, 8 feedbacks, 15 points
14-Apr-10, 08:54 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Chemistry Chemistry profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
8. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #2
 
Not me. If my wife has been unkind to me, and I'm owed an apology, I don't want sex. And sometimes -- this is weird, given my much higher sex drive -- she will in fact offer sex instead of the apology.

I'm complicated, but my wife makes my emotional ups and downs look dirt simple by comparison.

  Alert Top

Masterdick1 Masterdick1 rating
Member since 30-Mar-07
605 posts, 18 feedbacks, 36 points
14-Apr-10, 03:16 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Masterdick1 Masterdick1 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
3. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   ALSO---Some women do like BIG PRICKS as in penis...their is no
wrong or right...whatever floats their boat.

  Alert Top

orgasmic
Member since 10-Oct-05
55 posts
15-Apr-10, 09:06 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to orgasmic orgasmic profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
9. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #3
 
   orgasmic

Yes, some women prefer big dicks. I would say about 25%, and even those gals who like big would NOT consider that a deal breaker for a boyfriend, they just prefer bigger.

I have noticed women who have had kids like bigger, and women who have had some good experiences with hung dudes. Consider that the AVERAGE American has had 9 different lovers in their LIFETIME, therefore the average american woman has not had too many hung dudes, so how would they know if they like them?

  Alert Top

AsianFixation AsianFixation rating
Charter Member
1091 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points
15-Apr-10, 12:31 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AsianFixation AsianFixation profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
11. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #9
 
   What masterdick said.

I think you are trying to generalize something that is more complex.

  Alert Top

stepcloser
Member since 23-Jan-10
57 posts
16-Apr-10, 06:03 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to stepcloser stepcloser profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
15. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #9
 
   Well I have had lots of girlfriends. And I am a little above average but not too big. I have had several girlfriends that have had more than two kids. yet they were very tight. But every girl I have dated told me that 85 percent of the women do not like big dicks because they hurt. And this was coming from the girls that had kids.I have seen a lot of women in the regular dating scene in my life time. And they all tell me that it is the guys that think that if the dick is big they can get more girls to like them. They say that simply is not true. It is more a guy thing instead of a woman thing. They say it is usually if the guy knows how to use your dick well( rather than size)...unless of course you have a very very small dick. So go figure. Once you think you got it all figured out you still do not!

  Alert Top

alwayshorny54 alwayshorny54 rating
Member since 22-Nov-08
648 posts, 8 feedbacks, 16 points
16-Apr-10, 04:41 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to alwayshorny54 alwayshorny54 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
20. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #15
 
  
Being average in size, a provider once told me that by her experience, men with sizable dicks have an ego about it and focus too much on the believing to please a women through intercourse instead of paying attention to her emotional sexual needs. Figure it out.

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

  Alert Top

AsianFixation AsianFixation rating
Charter Member
1091 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points
16-Apr-10, 07:35 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AsianFixation AsianFixation profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
24. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #15
 
   >Well I have had lots of girlfriends. And I am a little above
>average but not too big. I have had several girlfriends that
>have had more than two kids. yet they were very tight. But
>every girl I have dated told me that 85 percent of the women
>do not like big dicks because they hurt. And this was
>coming from the girls that had kids.I have seen a lot of
>women in the regular dating scene in my life time. And they
>all tell me that it is the guys that think that if the dick
>is big they can get more girls to like them. They say that
>simply is not true. It is more a guy thing instead of a
>woman thing. They say it is usually if the guy knows how to
>use your dick well( rather than size)...unless of course
>you have a very very small dick. So go figure. Once you
>think you got it all figured out you still do not!


That's funny. Reminds of this girl I know that said a lot of girls tell average to smaller guys that to make them feel better, when to them, bigger is better.

I can tell you from personal experience, I have experienced the polar opposite of what you posted.

  Alert Top

bone69 bone69 rating
Member since 17-Nov-06
2186 posts, 28 feedbacks, 52 points
14-Apr-10, 03:27 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bone69 bone69 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
4. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   Why would anyone want to see a pic of a guys dick? Women are not nearly as visual as men. Sure, they like physical attractiveness. But what's inside is more important. Personality, confidence, etc probably more important .

For an escort screening a potential client, they could care less about the size of your dick. They probably would prefer smaller. They are more concerned with your hygeine, are you going to treat them with respect and are you going to pay when requested.

Not that much different than dating (except for the money part). When dating, more concerned with who is going to pick up the tab for dinner.

  Alert Top

FirmWorm FirmWorm rating
Member since 28-Feb-06
1014 posts, 18 feedbacks, 23 points
14-Apr-10, 07:42 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to FirmWorm FirmWorm profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
5. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   Thanks for the info, I'll stop with the dick pics. However, do you think I should continue sending the pics of chicks that I think are hot looking? I just like to give potential mates an idea of how I want them to look.

  Alert Top

Shellback97 Shellback97 rating
Member since 27-May-05
3333 posts, 99 feedbacks, 178 points
14-Apr-10, 07:53 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Shellback97 Shellback97 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
6. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
The dick thing strikes me as obviously stupid and any guy that thinks that's a good way to pick up a chick is an idiot. Chicks, even RB chicks want their partners to show at least a little bit of class.

I agree most civilian chicks have all kinds of strings attached to their sex drives. Many RB chicks do too and are just going through the motions much of the time. Some RB chicks go through the motions all the time. Now there are a few girls here who have learned to seperate all that and are basically as horny as most guys, I've heard tell of civilian chicks that are like that, though I've yet to meet one. I know one RB chick that's actually hornier then me! Don't ask me her name. I'm keeping that valuable info to myself! hehe


  Alert Top

tangoman tangoman rating
Member since 19-Jan-05
3735 posts, 37 feedbacks, 73 points
16-Apr-10, 07:14 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to tangoman tangoman profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
23. "RE: show a little class"
In response to message #6
 
  

  Alert Top

oralio oralio rating
Member since 1-Dec-03
35172 posts, 121 feedbacks, 205 points
14-Apr-10, 08:20 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to oralio oralio profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
7. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
As a class, neither men nor women understand the other well.

Most women have no idea that we do not invest nearly as much forethought or analysis regarding what we do and what we say. Women waste more time trying to figure out what we REALLY meant.

Be the change
you wish to see

  Alert Top

bobbybegood
Charter Member
368 posts, Rate bobbybegood
16-Apr-10, 03:58 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to bobbybegood bobbybegood profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
19. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #7
 
  
> Women waste more time trying to figure out what we
>REALLY meant.
>

Hopefully when they figure it out they'll tell us, 'cause half the time WE don't know.

--BBG

  Alert Top

AsianFixation AsianFixation rating
Charter Member
1091 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points
15-Apr-10, 12:26 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AsianFixation AsianFixation profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
10. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   I think you theory just demonstrated that you don't understand women's sex drive, as this is one theory and women are far more complex than one theory can cover.

I have discovered far more sophistication and diversity from women, than can be expressed in a thread like this. We all can.

  Alert Top

NiceWork NiceWork rating
Charter Member
963 posts, 1 feedbacks, 2 points
15-Apr-10, 08:21 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to NiceWork NiceWork profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
12. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   Partly true. But women don't have the same level of sex drive, experienced as a need for sex, that men do. They experience a need for other things, like cuddly, snuggly togetherness, which they often trade sex to get. Successful partners reconcile this exchange consciously or otherwise.

  Alert Top

Skeptical Skeptical rating
Member since 17-Feb-08
666 posts, 12 feedbacks, 21 points
15-Apr-10, 08:48 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Skeptical Skeptical profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
13. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   Young women have a sex drive, but the emotional/love part of it really dominates so they're not going to share that with just anyone.

Many women undergo a change right around 40 that turns them into the equivalent of teenage boys. They can't stop thinking about sex. They want to do it all the time. They want to explore and break through their old boundaries to try things they never considered before. They no longer care so much about the emotional/love part of it and will start looking for NSA relationships. It's a great thing to experience if you aren't the type who has to have young eye candy.

Personally, I'd rather take a 40 year with the same sex drive as me than a 23 year old hottie who still doesn't have it all worked out yet.

  Alert Top

Chemistry Chemistry rating
Member since 24-Jan-10
505 posts, 8 feedbacks, 15 points
16-Apr-10, 08:40 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to Chemistry Chemistry profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
17. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #13
 
"Many women undergo a change right around 40 that turns them into the equivalent of teenage boys. They can't stop thinking about sex. They want to do it all the time."

That's how old my wife was when I met her -- and it WAS great. Alas, it was pretty much all over five years later. She had her (our) last child, just in time for menopause.

  Alert Top

AMPFan AMPFan rating
Charter Member
11046 posts, 119 feedbacks, 222 points
15-Apr-10, 10:51 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AMPFan AMPFan profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
14. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
Just figured that out, eh?

So what do you think happens to the light inside the refrigerator when you close the door?

  Alert Top

LickedHerPuss LickedHerPuss rating
Member since 30-Mar-10
189 posts, 4 feedbacks, 8 points
16-Apr-10, 08:34 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to LickedHerPuss LickedHerPuss profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
16. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #14
 
   There's a light in the refrigerator? Gotta talk to my landlord, and my mamma.

  Alert Top

crazyfingers crazyfingers rating
Charter Member
2128 posts, 10 feedbacks, 20 points
16-Apr-10, 10:14 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to crazyfingers crazyfingers profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
18. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
Pretty funny that a bunch of guys can take a thread about women's sex drive and turn it into a discussion of dick size.

I want to know the physiological connection between men doing housework and horny women.

Female porno: a guy vacuuming (the carpet), taking out the trash, doing the dishes, cooking...

any ladies dare to get in here?

  Alert Top

JimiChanga JimiChanga rating
Member since 27-Jan-05
1904 posts, 18 feedbacks, 26 points
16-Apr-10, 06:31 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to JimiChanga JimiChanga profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
21. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   That's why we do whores!

Woman don't want dick pictures - they want a little game - some well word-smithed prose and some snappy chat will go a long way to getting you what you want. Build a little sexual tension and they will be all over you.

Having some manners, shaving your back & not weighing 300 fucking lbs also helps~

I love the losers that send dick pictures. Easier for my email to get read.

  Alert Top

AsianFixation AsianFixation rating
Charter Member
1091 posts, 7 feedbacks, 14 points
16-Apr-10, 07:38 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AsianFixation AsianFixation profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
25. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #21
 
  
>I love the losers that send dick pictures. Easier for my
>email to get read.

No shit. Talk about natural selection...

  Alert Top

curious777
Member since 7-Apr-10
70 posts
16-Apr-10, 07:06 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to curious777 curious777 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
22. "RE: Do men REALLY understand women's sex drive?"
In response to message #0
 
   curious777
Typical scenario: man/woman sex.
After their first fuck after going out for a month.
Man: The dinner was great, the movie was great, the sex was spectacular, can't wait to see her again. Puts out the light and goes to sleep.
Woman: The dinner was lovely, the movie interesting, he actually put it in. What does it all MEAN. Is he going to want to do that everytime we meet. Puts out the light but lies awake for two hours pondering.

  Alert Top

Conferences | Forums | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic

   reviews | join vip | metasearch | terms of use | privacy top | help | faq    ©2010 myRedBook S.A.