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"Is this safe?"
 
   Hey Gents when u go see a provider do you park your car nearby or a few blocks away? Do you think its safe to park your car on a massage parlors parking lot? I'am new at this and wanted to hear some of your opinions. Your comments will be greatly appreciated. Thank U

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1. "RE: Is this safe?"
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I'd assume part of that is based on the city in which you plan to session. When I'm in the city, I rarely drive to an appointment.
...at an AAMP, they typically give you the parking space and prefer you park there.
...at an AMP, there are usually more shops in the same business area, so no problem.
...at a hotel, no issue. (lots of transients at a hotel)
...at indy, she'll normally advise you of available parking (be it on the street, a garage/driveway, or other option.
...at an office, park in a nearby parking structure.
...at a hot tub, park in the parking lot to the facility or a meter on the street. (haven't done this in some time, but will still do this if the urge hits me).
...I'll park in Palm Tree parking lot (again some time ago but I have no issue with it as it's public parking).

In short, do you question parking at a strip club? If not, why worry about session?

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2. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Park nearby and walk over for anyone you haven't met before. Don't be tempted to bend on this rule. There's no end to the ways that you can be taken advantage of by revealing which vehicle is yours, your license tag, etc.

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16. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Good advice, but why change once you have met. You never know if a nosy neighbor is writing down plate numbers or what. Besides, a short walk gives you time to assess the surroundings - looks for people watching, etc.

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3. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Depends, is parking lot visible to alot of drive by traffic?

Our you concerned with being discovered?

If you have no SO or concerns about what your friends and relatives

would think if they found out, park wherever you want.

I don't care, and as long as you lock your car it is probably as safe

in a massage parlors parking lot as it is a few blocks away.

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4. "RE: Is this safe?"
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LAST EDITED ON 15-Apr-10 AT 08:00 PM (PST)
 
Depends on how you define "safe"... are you worried about an SO, a colleague from work, a neighbor, or someone like that driving by and seeing your car there?

If so, find a business close by that you have a legitimate reason to park at, and park there. Buy something there so that you have a receipt too... that way no one can tow your car away.

I do not park in the lots or on the property at AAMPs. Just me, but I don't want to be in a known location and have somebody take down my license number...

Leaving the car a block or two away might leave your car open to a break-in. I would think twice about parking my car in some areas after dark, and would then keep to a garage.

In the City I generally park at Stockton/Sutter garage and walk or cab everywhere else.

In the end, just use common sense. Listen to you instincts. If they tell you something ain't right, take a pass on the situation and come back from a different angle. Always be safe.

"Wow, it's really warm in there..."

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24. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   >In the end, just use common sense. Listen to you instincts.
> If they tell you something ain't right, take a pass on the
>situation and come back from a different angle. Always be
>safe.

This is the best IMO. I have gone with my instincts and they have yet to fail me. And is one or two cases, it saved me. You can always see her another time or visit someone you trust.

I used to see this RA in SJ and she was very reliable. I knew her schedule. She knew mine and everything was fine. Same place, Same time or roughly close to it.

One week she was gone. A couple of weeks passed with no contact or responses and them I got a text from her one day. She wanted to see me but said she was in a new place. Gave me the address and room number. Something just didn't seem right but I missed her so I scheduled for my regular time. She said she wouldn't be available at that time and offered another time that she should have known would not have worked for me. I said I would be in a meeting at that time and could not make it. She said, maybe next week then? Haven't heard from her since. The text and language in the text just wasn't her and I am glad I didn't go. The guy that originally turned me onto her said she was busted and popped some of her clients.
*whew*

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5. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Some cities impound your car and sell it at auction if you get busted doing this hobby. I don't know what the laws and policies are in each city or if it's just for street arrests, but I tend to play it safe when it comes to my car.

For indies I don't know and for AAMPs, I will usually park a block away if it's easy enough. In the cities that do confiscate your car, I've heard stories about how the cops will just walk around with your keys pressing your remote until they find your car so I tend to leave my keys hidden in my locked car and use keyless entry to get back in afterward. My plan is that if I ever get swept up in a bust and they ask how I got there, I'll just follow Rule #1 and not tell them a damn thing about anything including my car. Without the keys and without me talking, it will be a lot harder for the cops to take my car.

I don't take any of this to the extreme though. I'll do it it if it's convenient, but I don't worry about it if it isn't.

By the way, I also leave everything else I don't need back in the car. I don't take my wallet, watch, ring or extra cash with me.

Maybe I'm being too paranoid, maybe not. But I tend to be an "ounce of prevention prevents a pound of cure" kinda guy.

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6. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   good advice all around.

I only see providers at their incalls. If the hotel they are at charges for parking, I always look for street or a hotel nearby that doesn't charge for parking.

I'd rather walk a block or two then pay 10-20 more bucks for parking for one hour or less.

If it's a hotel with free parking but the girl is one I haven't seen before, I might park outside of that hotel's lot if I have any doubts or concerns that it could be bad if the girl or her "friends" see my car. (and when that feeling strikes I usually bolt anyway and don't need to park.)

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7. "Another reason to park discreetly"
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I have a good friend who once parked his one-of-a-kind roadster across the street a well-known upscale strip club and went in to enjoy himself for a few hours. By dumb luck, his GF happened to drive by, saw his car, and put 2 and 2 together. Having a spare set of keys, she took a bit of creative revenge, removing both front seats from his car and taking them home. If you were anybody but him, it had to be pretty funny imagining him driving home without a car seat and then getting reamed by his GF when he got home.

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8. "RE: Another reason to park discreetly"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Apr-10 AT 08:48 AM (PST)
 
Thanks guys for the great advice. I got a great laugh at some of the stories u shared.

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10. "RE: Another reason to park discreetly"
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http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/User_files2/v2m02x0vf0i99212.jpg

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12. "RE: Another reason to park discreetly"
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   Thanks Gents for giving me the heads up. Hey Rockout that picture is so funny..ha..ha ! I wonder how did u come up with that one? !

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9. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   i never park in the "designated" spots. Be it an amp, or independent provider. I've visited plenty of places where i'm asked specifically what type of car i'm driving or to park in a particular spot. I never give that info or comply with the orders.

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11. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   (17)i have been going to AMP for over 20years and have never had any problems with parking at any of the AMP in the southbay, some are kind of in the open and can be seen from the street so if your worry is that someone you know might spot you or your car then yes you might want to park a block or so away, for me it's not a problem as i really don't care what others think of my lifestyle, as for AAMP i am kind of new to them and have been going for about a year i drive a big truck so most of time i can't park in the small parking stalls of there complex, but even when i do i have never seen anyone take down any info, but it makes me think about something i never gave any thought to

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13. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   I stopped parking in designated spots after an incident occurred. The PO gave me parking stall to park my car and I did. Unfortunately the stupid beotch gave me the wrong stall number and an angry tenant, the owner of the stall, decided to block my car in. I had to go door to door at 2am until I found the tenant. While I was pissed at him I was more so at the PO. Learned my lesson. I always park on the streets and never in the lot.

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14. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   I never park in the "assigned" spot for the very reason mentioned by NYC. No worries when parking in a lot open to the general public.

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15. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   AMP= yes I park in the lot
AAMP= yeah I park near by..

Basically, what are u afraid of...
If the PO Po is watching, they will see u walk up from a block away,
and they will will follow u back to your car.. if they want.

people usually only get caught at AMP's because they are stupid
and confess once they are questioned....
If it ever happens, say nothing that is ur legal right,
if they have evidance to get u, they don't need to talk to you about it.

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17. "RE: Is this safe?"
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I never park my car in their lot for fear of a raid...I don't know if they will tow your car if it's parked on their premises during a raid, but why risk it.

When i go to their apartments, i park as close as possible, but never in the guest parking (Same reasons as above).

I prefer to see em' at their apartments cuz' it's more relaxing and unrushed (And i can usually smoke some killer buds with them there).

"ASS, GRASS OR BLOWJOBS"

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18. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Years ago I was caught in a motel bust and was parked around the corner. LE towed my car. I guess they knew what I was driving since I went thru the lot first. A guy that was caught before me was parked in the motel lot and they didn't tow his car. Which was a good thing for me because he ended up giving me a ride to the tow yard to get my car out! I guess it just depends on the mood of LE at the time.

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19. "RE: Is this safe?"
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I always park and walk. Never know who is looking for a plate number.

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20. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   OK, different perspective here:

Years ago I engaged in a different illegal hobby. I never parked near the location, always a block or two away. Anyway, one night the place got busted and I got away by climbing over the back fence and cutting through the neighbor's yard.

LE had the street blocked off and if I'd parked out in front, I woulda been toast. As it was I walked to my car and drove away. From that time on I always park a few blocks away. Maybe it's being overly cautious, but what the heck - I can use the exercise!

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21. "RE: Is this safe?"
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I don't want them to know what car I drive or where I park, so I would park a little far off and walk, but you don't know if they have a pimp observing you for their own safety and the pimp would know your car anyway. Can they black-mail you?

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22. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Good advice all around. Thanks for all the feedback.

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23. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Park it where you will, but always use a cover.

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25. "RE: Is this safe?"
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   Park a block away, only bring "donation", tell a "somebody" where you're at that you trust just in case where you're heading if you got it like that. In fact if you got everything set up in advance, dont bring nothing of value in you're car (except for the gat in under the hood for protection) or on your persons. Simple. Safety first brothers

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