LAST EDITED ON 19-Apr-10 AT 11:06 AM (PST)
The key word here is 'PERCEPTION'.It is the perception of the hobbyist that plays in the upper-scale arena that the provider will be more available to him. Intellectually, spiritually and otherwise. I personally don't think it's about 'what she'll do' that's different. I'm not so sure there's much difference in the services offered, however it IS in the delivery and the commitment from the young lady where the rubber meets the road.
We aren't talking about the 1/2 hour type date in any way. The old in-squirt-ahhhhh isn't applicable.
I've played on EVERY level of the hobby beginning in the late 60's with a $14.00 overnite, to street walkers, to supposed non-pros, to pros and aamps, including the UPPER reaches of the courtesan world.
In 2002 I discovered a girl named Aliyanna Lee on another board and emailed her. For a load of reasons we were unable to connect for an appointment and began an email relationship that lasted 14 months and finally were able to meet. Her business model was minimum 3 hour encounters at $1500 and later in her career became 3 hours at $2500 with $6000 as her overnite rate. Now she's retired after following her plan and her exit strategy, a clever and very bright woman who knew from the very beginning what she wanted to do. She set herself up and waited and was patient and soon enough men requested her services. To a man it was commented that she again was a very clever businesswoman and she was. My ATF for 6 1/2 years until she retired.
BTW, ATF is singular gents.
Later on I met a girl in Los Angeles named Grace W. formerly Lio of Los Angeles who did the same thing. Lio/Grace has a $6000 overnite rate and is busy. Can we talk about Art History, RnB, World Affairs, Politics, Animation? Yes! A resounding yes. And, that is a quality that you won't necessarily find with a less expensive girl. Not to say that any of the others are less intelligent. On the contrary, I know a number of other young ladies that consistently amaze me with their command of the English language and many deep and interesting subjects. However, something about taking the time to dig into anything other than the hobby is limited. Meeting Lio/Grace was in about 2004 and to this day I communicate with both Aliyanna and Grace having become pretty close friends.
Perhaps these ladies aren't burdened with the typical mind set that they need to be in fear of their profession. Discreet? Oh yes!!!! To a fault, but I never sensed any fear. And we all know we sense that from time to time with some girls.
Same applies to Sky Andrews and Amy Darren from Australia. Sky a swimsuit model traveled internationally and Amy Darren an Australian Penthouse Centerfold. Each of these girls $1200 per hour and busy.
Somehow or the other these young women understand how to navigate the real world of the hobbyist with money and never really approach the hobbyist that is interested in the $200 girl.
It's simply 'PERCEPTION' and the application of a different business model.
My recommendation to hobbyists on a regular basis is to ignore the ads if they don't appeal to them. If the pricing structure is something that's offensive or out of someones' range or whatever, then ignore the ad and move on to someone you really feel comfortable with.
Last year I met a young woman who simply changes the air quality in the room named Evita Moren. Perhaps the brightest young woman I've met in my lifetime. Her rate is $350 incall and $400 outcall. I'll say I was so surprised when I met her at 18 years old. A deep, deep soul, talented in many other areas including writing, web design and graphic arts/design. A true thinker with a wonderful sense of humor and the ability to make one feel as if you're the only man alive. My point? I'd pay her $10,000 overnite, or whatever. I would NOT care. Her reviews say pretty much that all men would like to take her off the market. And, she's $350 an hour. So......I got lucky and when my ATF retired, another appeared mysteriously.
There is a huge cadre of hobbyists in the world who are not concerned with the donation the girl reqests. Paola Rey porn actress from Brazil is a good friend. Her rate starts with 3 hour minimum at $3000. And, when she's providing, which she's not at the moment, she's so busy she cannot keep up with appointment requests. Men who travel in this arena are quiet, UTR, don't post, and search carefully and pursue the courtesan who exhibits the characteristics and qualities they're interested in.
Sky Andrews for example had an arrangement a few years ago with a New York business man for something like 4 months at $250,000. Her own Central Park Apartment, credit card for shopping, car anywhere she wanted to go etc.. She complained to me of being horribly bored with the need to be almost on-call for this guy 100% of the time. Pretty awful if you ask me, and he only saw her maybe once a week. And the rule was....no providing while on contract. Sadly it sent her home to Brisbane to retire.
Shelly Yang, an asian girl in the Bay Area starts with $500 an hour and goes up and then a newer discovery for me who was delivered UTR from a friend named Grace Komigato who has a 2 hour minimum at $2000.
Ms. Komigato is the epitome of the courtesan providing a level of personal attention I have rarely experienced. Having spent quite a long time with her I know without inquiring or prying into her business that she's very much in demand, quite selective and has enjoyed the company of more than one well-heeled hobbyist.
Now, just last week I saw an incredibly delightful young woman named Jennifer Matsui for 2 hours at $500 and had an absolute blast. And, made another date for later this week.
So, I'm not a provider snob if you will. I'll frequent all levels of the hobby still if I'm attracted to the young lady.
There are girls who charge $150 who could be dragging down thousands and there are girls who request thousands who really shouldn't be asking for $100.
So, I'm not sure if any of that will help. It IS what you asked for.
My position on the subject of why spend alot of money on a young lady is.....
I'm not so much concerned personally about the money. I'm concerned about my personal perception of how the experience will benefit the two of us. Not just me.
Now, I'm sure I left something out and will post if I think of something. It's not all that complicated really, and if you think about the idea that there are many men out there who are TOTALLY QUIET AND DISCREET that you never hear from, don't know and never will, maybe you'll begin to realize how this exists.
After all.....THERE IS AN ASS FOR EVERY SEAT!
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