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XyMusic XyMusic rating
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"Forgiveness Policy"
 
Say you struck out and did not click with a provider, the session had limited services, or had an appt cancelled. Do you forgive and try again or is it one strike and bye bye for you? What's your forgiveness policy?


Life is a box of expensive chocolates!

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boobird
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1. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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Transient industry. Other fish to fry. Move on.

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2. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Depends on the provider and if it was a first appointment or a

follow up appointment. All providers have good days and no so good

days. If I like the provider I would give her another chance too

redeem herself. My rule I guess is two strikes and your out, most

of the time.

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5. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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What he said.

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3. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   I'll overlook those type of issues. However, if appearance is not up to what is stated in an ad, or even a review. I simply walk. No discussion, no offer to pay for their time.

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andy_is_randy
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4. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   It depends on which of the above.

For canceled appt... if she informed me PRIOR to showing up and had a reasonable explanation, I'd give it another shot. If it was a flake, there had better be a much better reason.

For limited services.... well I don't see why this would change at a subsequent meeting, so no more tries for me.

For not clicking... move on... there are so many other hot women on here, I don't see the point of going back.

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6. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   I just move on I have plenty of other girls to see

"Alea iacta est!"

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7. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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If money wasn't that much of an issue and she was gorgeous, I'd give it another try. But in my experience, I've never repeated with anyone under your stated parameters.

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8. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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Everyone deserves a second chance, in my book.

Had given second chances to Flakes, or bad services before.

But second offense is it for me...

Always Seeking.

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9. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Cancelled....one more try. Unless I really have it to see her, then she gets a 3rd chance.

Bad service or didn't click - Adios. No reason to think that would change on the second go round.

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10. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Zero Tolerance. I will not waste my money on something uncertain. There are tons of good providers out there.

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callecochrane
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11. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   One clarification. I'm talking highly rated ladies. If she has medium reviews, then there is no need to forgive because I didn't call in the first place.
Also, forgiveness works both ways.

Each situation is different, and the chance for forgiveness depends on how it's handled. If someone (lady or gentleman) feels they've truly been blown off, then neither will forgive. However, in either case, if there's an open dialogue (with heartfelt apologies), then forgiveness might be possible. Because of her apologetic communication, I once forgave a no show, and she took me to the moon and back. Another time, because of how I reached out, an atf forgave my sins, and we're currently on our way to Venus.

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12. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   If you like her, meaning she's your 'type', then give her try but only if she has excellent reviews. If not, let it be and move on.

Had a similar situation with a really 'hottie'; looking back on the whole experience it sucked! And she was so my 'type' but the service was and is limited so I moved on. But found much more hotter, sexier, hornier soon after.

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13. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   One strike and move on. There are plenty of providers to try. And new ones appearing all the time.

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hadji1966
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14. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   >Say you struck out and did not click with a provider, the
>session had limited services, or had an appt cancelled. Do
>you forgive and try again or is it one strike and bye bye
>for you? What's your forgiveness policy?

I'm actually rather forgiving. My second date with Summer Storm didn't go very well, but I didn't become enraged and lose my cool. I forgave her, and she tried exceptionally hard to please me on our next date. I've seen her five times since that disastrous second date.
One time, Mary, whom I saw nine or ten times, forgot to apply her deodorant. Her underarm odor nearly negated my sexual appetite, but I went through with the date. I wound up seeing her several more times until she finally retired from the business.

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blucas
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15. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   I won't even go back if I've had a pretty good time usually. So many providers out there, and I like variety. It has to be a GREAT experience for me to go back.

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xpertrod
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 04-May-10, 06:29 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Did not click - done
limited service - done

Why would these change in a subsequent appt?

Cxl...depends how she did it, and if she offered something that showed she takes responsibility.

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17. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   If you don't 'click' with her then move on. If sooo your type then maybe another shot. If she cancelled then 'yeah' that's understandable. Providers do have live outside of RB and 'yes' it is disappointing sometimes.

The girls you do get along with usually end up being regulars, right?

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18. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Surprisingly I had a no-show with a provider and put in a review stating the no-show. Low and behold the provider sent me an inbox apologizing for the no-show. Explained that it would not be toloerated. Spoke to the PO and the RA and asked me to try again, promising the "VIP" service and a discount. Told me what to say to the PO when I called back and I would be taken care of.

I called back and received what was promised. So, in my book, 2nd chances are allowed. After that, CYA!

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xpertrod
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 05-May-10, 07:54 AM (PST)
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20. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   That's how it should be done. Maybe next time she will offer someone she flaked on a make-good deal BEFORE they write a review.

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22. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Well, I didn't give them enough time maybe. I wrote the review the same day. But the org was quick to respond and I must admit, I was pleasantly surprised that I received the email in the first place just as much as the offer they made/gave. The lived up to it and I can respect that.

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19. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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   Why would anyone remoteley forgive? This isn't a fucking date. This is P4P.

Fork out more money on the same girl and take a chance again? Sounds insane. Plenty of Hookers out there, if she can't perform for the 3 bills or whatever, don't be a total sap and do her again...

No, I never forgive. Why should I? Do I get a freebie or something? Even if offered, I, personally, wouldn't since my time is more valuable.
No shortage of High quality Hookers so no reason to give a second chance.

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1bean
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21. "RE: Forgiveness Policy"
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If you don't click the first time, what makes you think you'll click the 2nd?

Unless you've got a gut feeling and the price is right, I would simply move on...

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