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sirberrus
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"Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
 
   And what does she think of it?

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Masterdick1 Masterdick1 rating
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1. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   You have got too be KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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sirberrus
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3 posts		 22-Apr-10, 05:13 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   No, not kidding. I might settle for naive.

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7. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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Interesting question, but saying you are "kidding" might not consider the special case when a wife is paralyzed or otherwise unable / unwilling to fulfill her marital duties, as we have seeing in movies and/or TV series. I do not know any real life public example though.

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ronj2000
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3. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   If my wife was cool with it, I’d be worried. That could mean she's getting banged by the asshole at work and doesn't care what I do.

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rforre1
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4. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   I'm with ronj2000...if the wife doesn't care that you're mongering, then she's definitely banging somebody. And if she's an American, she's waiting for the 401K to fatten a bit more and plotting her plunder of 1/2 your life's savings.

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5. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   I knew a guy whose wife had a hysterectomy and was not the least bit interested in any type of intercourse. She didn't really care, she was just happy to be married.

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!

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fake_handle01a
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6. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   regular poster under fake handle

yes she knows. hate it when the provider calls the SO! (learned the importance of a hobby phone dammit) BUT we had talked about it before... it is tolerated.. The SO is not dumb or naive... but not as horny...

I think many RB handles think they are getting away with something when in reality the S.O. knows.. we have spoken many times -- a few rules :

1. Not at home.
2. Dont bring it home.
3. Dont let me know.
4. keep it out of sight..
5. No relationships...

and we talk about it once in a while... as well as our own lives and why we are still together... has provided a few great lines...

like when I bought alcohol wipes for the bathroom ... "hey --- use em on your dick when you get home dont want ya bringin in something when we ...."

or "Candy may be dandy .. but so is Randy!"

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8. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   My wife is handicapped and says as long as the girl doesn't mean anything to me and it's just sex, she doesn't mind, she just doesn't want to know about it.

"Alea iacta est!"

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notmeithink
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9. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   No one is in an open relationship around here?

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11. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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>No one is in an open relationship around here?
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Yup.

There are many.

Have met many.

Fujiwara tofu rocks!

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OleBuddy10 OleBuddy10 rating
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10. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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what wife?

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WindHawk55
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12. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   What most Hobbyist do not or want to realize their SO gets tired of the same old DICK as they that same old Pussy.
Case in point, when your SO wants separate vacations or time with the girls with out you ?
Women has always been smarter and better at covering their tracks than men.
Go to the beach's of Mexico and see what happens with and why all the women like the resorts there.
Basically they go and get well fucked by some young stud and just like they tell you they do not want to hear or know about it.

>And what does she think of it?

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notmeithink
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2422 posts		 23-Apr-10, 08:52 AM (PST)
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16. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   Even if my S.O is getting a little on the side, the ratio is 10-1 in my favor, and those are some stats I can live with.

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LickedHerPuss LickedHerPuss rating
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13. "Approval?"
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   We hobby together. Doesn't everybody?

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dominomax
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14. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   I have the ok to try a rub n tug. But she still think I haven't

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Rocco32
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70 posts		 23-Apr-10, 08:03 AM (PST)
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15. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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A lady friend of mine who at the time was married and pregnant and couldn't stand even the idea of being touched by her man, he on the other hand was extremely turned on with the physical changes of her pregnancy. Her solution was for him to go pay for it and leave her alone. A few months after the baby was born they got back in their groove.

What a Good Girl!

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eros2354 eros2354 rating
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17. "Approval of the wife?"
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Its call fly paper or a walking time bomb. Hella not worth it, even for her to have that slight suspicion. The small advantage that you think you have is not worth the troubles ahead.

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kroll
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18. "RE: Approval of the wife?"
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   Yes. But there are rules:
1. No FS.
2. Ask permission first.
3. Limit anything more than a r&t to when I'm traveling.
4. Limit local r&t attempts to infrequent "legit" massage places where "accidents" might happen. (I'm 100% thanks to RB.)
5. We discuss it in bed, it turns her on.

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19. "RE: Approval of the wife?"
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Pretty much same rules as Kroll.

Wife has some disability issues. So I am allowed FBSM+, BJ .

She must feel like we are connected and our sex life is active and good. No stepping out during a "dry" spell. Kinda of goes against the nature of the game, LOL but so far it has worked. She has also surprised me a couple of times with "gifts".

She doesn't care to know details but want's the truth when asked. She is talking about doing couples Tantric work with the guidance of another and looking on RB.

I've broken those rules once. Long night of discussion followed. Won't do that again, it's easy to screw up a good thing.

90% of my visits are therapeutic in nature, 10% spice.

One For The Road

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25. "What rule did you break?"
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   Telling her the details, not telling her the truth, or hobbying during a "dry spell"?

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sirberrus
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3 posts		 23-Apr-10, 04:39 PM (PST)
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20. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   Thanks for the replies guys. I've been in the doghouse the last couple of days, and needed to get some perspective and my sanity checked.

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vietsampler
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21. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   You are kidding, right? Heck, if my wife approve it, I would think that she doesn't love me any more and probably have some other dude.

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22. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 23-Apr-10 AT 06:06 PM (PST)
 
You guys that asuume if the wife is okay with it she must be banging someone else simply don't understand women. While it may be true in some cases you can't even come close to assuming it.

My wife has permission from me to do as she pleases. She's not interested.

Some women are turned on by their man pounding some other girl and coming home to them. Some are turned on by watching. So many dynamics can play out - another man would be one of the rarer reasons I bet.

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23. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 24-Apr-10 AT 01:28 AM (PST)
 
>>>Some women are turned on by their man pounding some other girl...

Works the other way around too. Probably more often as I suspect more guys are into watching their wives get banged than the other way around. I think there are more cuckolds running around than we may imagine. Some women partake more than we give them credit for.

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Frank12 Frank12 rating
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24. "RE: Does anyone here hobby with the approval of the wife?"
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I really think this entire thing of It's ok for the guy to mess around but not for the gal is a holdover of the era when the gal had to not screw around so that the guy does not have to take the risk of raising another guy's child, aka "marriage == "Buying a womb".

In this day of paternity / genetic testing and women earning about as much as guys AND a greater acceptance (in Western countries, anyway) of woman's sexuality this dichotomy is breaking down.

Too late for ol' me, but better times coming for younger men I guess.

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