maybe the way to approach it is call or email her (hopefully you have her personal contact info while as co-workers) and ask her out for drinks. maybe she'd appreciate your generosity of a fun evening with an amazing blow job and roll in the hay.

I would exercise discretion, because your former colleague may not. You never know to whom she'll disclose her sexual escapades, and she may, without any inhibitions, mention that you were one of her johns. You never know who'll learn of your sexual proclivities, and what the repercussions may be.

I mean, isn't there a reason everyone uses handles, first names only almost exclusively, made up names like OhBABY! or whatever sorta nonsense to avoid precisely this exposure and entanglements?

Having had one exceedingly challenging Monday morning a couple of years ago from the parking lot til the time I got to my desk at HQ and running into 3 civilian ladies I'd dated, I can only recommend not letting any outside life have any possible connection to the work place or real world setting.

There's still one MILF divorcee hottie I succumbed to in the office like 4 years ago and I ended it quickly after a few months and yet she takes every opportunity to come into my office to flaunt her new bolt ons and invite me to lunch, etc. Agh.

Don't let any work and any extracurriculars blend, life's short and it ain't worth the Drama!

Your new provider/former colleague has to be assumed to have ongoing or revivable connections to your current employment and there's just no predicting what advantage to her or disadvantage to you that could foretell.

If you spring for the temptation and it works out great, that sure would be a great turn of events, but it doesn't seem the percentage bet as a general rule.

This is NOT to suggest that the representative RB lady should be expected to use that real world knowledge to exploit the client, just to say that it's a vulnerability. As we all have experienced, provider-client interaction can turn out fabulously or go real south real fast, thus the concern about discretion about identities.

We don't expect ladies to give us their complete real world identities, family information, etc. and there's lots of discussion we all see here about ladies needing to protect themselves from the losers among us.

Kinda like when we hit the casino/wall street the old rule of thumb seems to work, don't take bets you can't afford to lose.

I love shit like that. I'd do it in a heart beat. The only thing that would make it sweeter is if I did not like the MF. Then every time I saw the asshole I'd be thinking... yeah I fucked your daughter, sister or wife.

They way I see it they all have more to lose than me and besides if I was not into risks I would not be here.

A 3-hole girl is better than 9 holes of golf!