As for handling of money, read the ad to see if she wants an envelope. If no mention, then just silently place it on a table when your walk in.

Most escorts do not negotiate, but this subject has been debated in other posts. If you want to try to negotiate, do it before you get there. You dont have much negotiating leverage anyway when you're standing in her room with a hardon in your pants.

For clarity on what you can expect in services, read the ad and stay with providers that have reviews. If the ad is unclear, and there are no reviews, then move on to the next.

-Rump

If you don't have a VIP Membership you will only be able to see a very brief summary of what happened and a rating. Not much help, so get a VIP Membership and you can read all the reviews of what is available in terms of services, cost, etc. Read some of the benefits at this link:

http://www.myredbook.com/whyjoin.aspx

If you really insist and want to play it her way, if the ad says place the envelope somewhere, then just do it. Basically, all of your questions are going to be answered by reading reviews where you will see what each guy obtained (servicewise) for the money. If she upselled for more money, most likely the review will state that information.

Your higher quality Hookers aren't going to do the upsell game and this will be reflected not only in the reviews but her star ranking which is also an informative tool that has an example at the link I included above.

As for being some UC Cop, kind of doubtful if she has several pages of reviews from dozens of different Men don't you think?

I sure hope this isn't another one of our weekly troll posts...but..never mind..onward.

Relax, read the board for information, read the reviews, and if "truly" your first time, just go for the long time girl with at least 10 reviews and over 6 months on the board as a general guide. Charter Member girls who have good reps and have been around for about 7 years or longer rarely dissapoint (assuming good service ratings).

Skip the reference nonsense. Plenty of girls don't require them and have the same or BETTER service.

How she wants money handled is usually specified in the ad. You say how long (and if different level of service offered, what service you want) and have the appropriate donation ready. If ad does not mention where to put donation, she'll tell you where or just put on edge of bed or on dresser by the bed.

If you want to see an escort who wants references, you will first have to acquire one or more references. Find providers who do not require references and would be willing to be a reference. You should repeat with them occasionally to remain on good terms. No one likes to feel used.

I was once in your situation, someone interested in seeing escorts, but apprehensive about the attendant problems. I, too, shared your concerns about being arrested in a law enforcement sting and the protocols to follow, so I did my research. A Website offered advice on how to see escorts. Things have generally gone well ever since.
I actually saw my first escort at my home in 2000, in broad daylight! I was initially nervous, and kept looking out my window. I finally saw an attractive blonde pull up in a compact car. A few minutes later, I opened the door for her. Her name was Cindy, and she is now my Facebook friend. Since she was 37 years old at the time, she has long since retired from the business.