Ok, I do like getting a little freaky and kinky but this is not in my "skill sets". Can anyone direct me to any website or can give advice on how this woman really wants to be treated???? I need details of what I am supposed to do!

I'll B BACK!

Tell her some of your friends will be over to be serviced as well.

One of the biggest pieces of that trust is good communication. Openly discussing with each other, what you're looking for, what you need, what you're looking to try out, and what things are soft or hard boundaries. One of the tools that can help you with getting on the same page is to have both of you fill out a BDSM checklist. This is essentially a long list of activities, where you can state how interested and comfortable you feel with each one.

http://www.thebrc.net/check_list/default.htm
http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/newchecklist/printerfriendly.php3

There are also a number of great resources on the web to learn about various aspects of BDSM, once you know what you're both interested in trying. You just have to take the time and effort to look for them.
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-Rump

Even pro-subs have their limits. Amateurs don't or may not understand what they are, and that is where accidents occur, sometimes with tragic results.

I have had several conversations with pro-domme people about expectations and "proper procedures" and I decided that the game (played correctly) wasn't my thing.

Just my .02

DaiLun

Good luck

Fetlife is a BDSM community web site and the people on it are pretty much BDSM pracitioners cause it's their chosen lifestyle. In other words, BDSM is who they are~not how they make their money, making this a very different resource than the Domination Station section of RedBook.

On Fetlife there are a number of discussion groups on various BDSM topics and if you post your situation in one of their forums, you will receive much input from both submissives who are like your girl and 'Masters', giving excellent input re how best to proceed.

For you to be a good master to your submissive is, as BlueLantern suggests, about trust and about you really about learning her desires and then serving her by providing for her what she wants~and if you develop trust between the two of you as well as the skills to discern her needs and provide for those needs, she'll rock your world in more ways than one.

Frankly, I envy you. I would luv to have a girl like this, who wanted to be my submissive on the side. Awesome privelege !!!

Have her help get another chick and do 3-somes. There's many girls willing to swing when another girl leads in, talks you up about your skills and even easier if she is cute.

Fujiwara tofu rocks!

As in....:SAY: "Get on your knees my humble slut and "drinkitdown".
"YOUR MASTER HAS SPOKEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!".

Big Hugs,

sfguyhere

My advice: Ask her for resources. Or order her to tell you about resources, if you can muster it up. She obviously enjoys this lifestyle, so she probably reads about it. That way you'll also get resources that appeal to her.

You can also order her to write one of her fantasies, and you can then bring the elements of it that appeal to you into your sessions.

You're not "supposed" to do anything other than what YOU WANT to do! Might I suggest that she is submitting to you because she enjoys fulfilling YOUR fantasies? You need not look anywhere for advice. What fantasies do YOU have that you've never had a chance to have fun with? She WANTS to explore those with you, whatever they may be. (Playing some kind of charade with cliche BDSM shit is going to be awkward and forced.) For once, don't burn so many calories trying to please her. She's telling you that what will please her the most is for you to do what YOU want to do. Give it some thought and start checking some things off the list you started when you were 13. It should be fun!

-Pork Sword