So what would you do if you found out your wife is a provider? Would you feel dirty sleeping next to a hooker? Or would you get a divorce?

Too much sex is still not enough

On the flip side;
Maybe she could round up a couple ladies, and we could start our own little business arangement!
Think of the possibilities!
Either a cut of the profits, or "freebies" with your wife and her stable of eligible bimbos!

Be the change
you wish to see

Now I'm at risk for a pimping charge and would want to find out how she arrived at the decision.

No one just wakes up some morning, finds 'ol SFRB, takes some cell phone pics in the bathroom, puts up an ad and then proceeds to turn tricks. Must have been some obvious clues or her "chums" are probably in the biz and coached/talked her into it.

Something clearly was missing in communication if she felt that she couldn't talk to me before we both agreed.

Doubtful I'd get a divorce, but there would be a lot to discuss. If she was a Hooker before I married her, I would have accepted that fact but this is different.

If a husband paid his provider wife, do you think she'd finally have sex with him?

The biggest issue I have with your situation would be the feelings of sadness that she felt like she couldn't discuss with me the idea before she decided to start providing. If she had brought the idea up, and we had decided together that it was our only option that would be fine because it was a decision that we made together as a couple. However, I would have made sure that we had exhausted all other options first, because it is a marriage, there are kids and there are a lot more factors involved.

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Hope burns bright!

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FriscoJack

I was interested in the mind set behind the fist one. I know it was mainly designed for the Chinese immigrants who supposedly pretended to bring in their wives into the country but actually were trafficking prostitutes. However this law could be used against any man who allows her wife to work as a prostitute.

so is it like let's prosecute the loser who allow his own wife to be a prostitute? What if he gets all upset and beats her up and throw her out of their house.. he gets battery charges but being a husband of prostitute charges dropped? Is this the "right" reaction this law is encouraging?

Or maybe he should step outside and in the presence of all the neighbors and friends and yell out 3 times... "you may not work as a whore! and I do not condone to you working as a whore!" and he is off the hook?

If prostitution is decriminalized, we do not have to deal with such theatrical nonsense. the husbands could view her work as any other work, be a loving husband and they could send kids to better schools and all could sit down for fabulous Sunday dinner and say the grace.

I am a tolerant and forgiving individual, and don't really consider prostitution a crime, or even morally objectionable. If my wife was secretly engaging in this endeavor, then I would consider the circumstances in which she was doing it before deciding on the course of action to take.
If economic exigencies impelled her into this activity, then I would be understanding. Many escorts spend their money on legitimate expenditures, such as rents or mortgages, college tuition, or food and clothing for their children. Some patiently save their money for years before making a tremendous purchase that will ensure their financial security. I think that if the family is facing economic ruin and utter destitution, then this is an acceptable course of action.
If, however, she was being a provider while we weren't experiencing any financial tribulations, then I would be enraged, but I would try and reconcile our differences. I am not an overly judgmental person, and believe in giving people chances. Someone must do something egregiously wrong before I become really angry at them.
Your question has led to another: how many housewives have been impelled by the economic crisis to become providers?

Hell yes! She is gone. Hooking would be bad enough, but then to toss in all the lying, and bullshit to cover her tracks, risk of disease, etc. She is showing an utter lack of respect for me, and she would be gone in a heartbeat.

And there isn't a family law judge that would side with her. Heck, I might even get alimony if she is making more than I do.

culo is a culo

A man has to eat, drink and be nice to women.

Seeing I am a hobbyist, however, I would be surprised (my wife would neeeever do such a thing is how I tend to think) and maybe a bit hurt, but at the same time I would have to be fine with it, cause for me to do what I do and then turn around and persecute her for doing the same, is to live a double standard. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, as the saying goes.

What!! I can sneak around on her but she can't do the same. I don't think so (although guys are notorious for thinking like that)!!

As for feeling dirty sleeping with a hooker, why should I if I don't feel dirty screwing hookers on the side~unless of course, sleeping with her as opposed to getting a nut and leaving somehow changes things~and it doesn't in my book.

That’s what you get for waking up in Vegas.

Client 69