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scoperdude
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30-Jul-10, 03:46 PM (PST)
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"another newbie question"
 
   i am a newbie and have a few questions. some you may think these are silly. but, i need your advice.

1. when showing at the provider's, do i need to bring my own towel and toiletries?

2. after showering, do i get fully dressed or do i go out wrapped in my towel?

3. do i bring my own condoms?

4. if i pop after 15 minutes (or five), what happens to the rest of the 1 hr session? must i leave immediately?

thanks.

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30-Jul-10, 04:19 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: another newbie question"
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   My comments below pertain to my experiences (mostly AAMP).

1. All toiletries will be provided. Though some more discerning mongers bring along their own loofa, body wash, listerine, etc. I go in with my car key, donation and nothing else.

2. What kind of set-up are we talking about here? If it's an apt or hotel room where the bathroom is connected to the bedroom, just leave your towel hanging in the bathroom and return to the bedroom nude. If you've taken a shower together, just look to her for direction on what to do next.

3. Another item some may bring with them, if there's a particular brand or type they prefer. I don't bring my own.

4. Generally she will take the lead and pace the session so you won't have to worry about this until you're into the second half of your hour. Some providers will allow for multiple pops (MSOG) so you could go again if so inclined and have enough time (just ask if that's available when you first meet). After the pop, providing she's not in a rush to get you out, extra time can be spent cuddling, whispering sweet nothings in her ear, maybe a massage, etc.

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30-Jul-10, 04:33 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: another newbie question"
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1) No unless you want to use your own brand of soap
2) Before or afterr the sex: go out naked
3) No, unless you require special ones (i.e., Kimono Maxx's)
4) Depends on the provider. If she doesn't allow MSOG then you can ask for a massage. If she indicates that she wants you to leave then ask for the donation back minus her half-hour rate. Fair is fair.

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Mugatu
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31-Jul-10, 02:34 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: another newbie question"
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   1. AAMP and AMP will have their own toiletries. Escorts working out of hotels generally have towels, unless they are lower end escorts. They will expect you to shower before you get there and just leave afterwards and shower at home. Higher end providers are more accomodating.

2. At AAMP, you probably will be wrapped in a towel, walking the short distance from the bathroom back to the bedroom. At a hotel, who cares, just walk out naked.

3. I would recommend bringing your own if you have a favorite condom. But there's a chance they won't have any, or have a horrible brand.

4. You should know yourself and pace yourself according to whether you set a 30min or hour appointment. Once again, lower end escorts will probably expect you to leave right after. Higher end ones understand part of the service is giving you your full time and will continue to make conversation and hang out. I would recommend trying 30 minute sessions first. I've found that you don't always get your money's worth for the full hour.

Good luck

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31-Jul-10, 05:25 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: another newbie question"
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   You really are a newbie!!

"1. when showing at the provider's, do i need to bring my own towel and toiletries?"

Usually, those items are provided. Bring your own only if you have a preference or have some phobia about using a stranger's personal items. Some guys bring their own toiletries so their SO won't suspect something (Why do you smell like Irish Spring when you showered with Dove soap in the morning?).

"2. after showering, do i get fully dressed or do i go out wrapped in my towel?"

Usually, you undress before going to the bathroom to shower. If you insist on undressing IN the bathroom and getting dressed again after the shower, she will think you are really strange (weirdo, oddball, psycho, nutjob). After the shower and drying yourself (or by her), you usually walk (or run) to the bedroom in your birthday suit unless it is a "shared" bathroom and/or "other" people (the other monger) may accidently see you. If it is a "shared" bathroom or you have to walk through a hallway, you usually go back to the bathroom (as you went in) wrapped in a towel.

"3. do i bring my own condoms?"

Generally, theirs are better IMO. Let them pay for them. Theirs are infinitely better than Trojans. You could bring your own if you have a preference or are extra big.

"4. if i pop after 15 minutes (or five), what happens to the rest of the 1 hr session? must i leave immediately?"

The RA will usually pace the session to get the number of pops she usually allows. If she usually does MSOG, she will try to get the first pop done as quickly as possible. Many (most) RAs in SF Bay Area are one pop per session and the RA will pace the session accordingly. If you pop too soon, some RAs will feel sorry for you and allow a 2nd pop. Otherwise, the rest of the session will be filled out with talking, DFK/LK, cuddling, and/or massage (even a quick nap).

If this were a session with a SW, you leave as soon as you pop. Same with a AMP/TAMP/MP (at least, that's what you did the last time I was at a MP over 30 years ago).

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5. "RE: another newbie question"
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>"3. do i bring my own condoms?"
>
>Generally, theirs are better IMO. Let them pay for them.
>Theirs are infinitely better than Trojans. You could bring
>your own if you have a preference or are extra big.

This question is purely out of curiosity. How are a providers condoms better? Is it just that your ATF(s) happen to know what you like?

Just to answer the question at hand, I use my own (Durex). Always have, civie or provider, and at this point, there may even be little superstition involved in not wanting to change or using a providers. Haha...

-Rump

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8. "RE: another newbie question"
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   When I first started visiting AAMPs, I brought my own (usually Durex). I hate Trojans (too thick). Then Yuki (my first AAMP provider 3 years ago, her roomie was Sake) said I should just use theirs because it was better (they got them from Japan). I'm not sure if they were really better or not. The Durex condoms had lube and spermicide on them. Maybe they preferred their own because they didn't have powder, lube or spermicide on them. Probably doesn't taste good. Anyway, they felt alright so I've gone with theirs ever since. Can sometimes go through many condoms in a single session (especially if she does MSOG). Why not save a little money and let them pay for the condoms?

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6. "RE: another newbie question"
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   Here's a problem for most newbies...they can't get it up. I don't know if it's nerves, but it can be quite frustrating when you can't get an erection. She may even give you "that look" as she is trying to get you hard...and can't. You start to feel insecure and then may even request to terminate the whole thing because of intense embarrassment. And the girl could care less because she already got paid. But nervous guys tend to pay for nothing in such situations. No refund...so sorry


My advice...Do not masturbate prior to a session. As a matter of fact, try to refrain from sex or ejaculating for at least 2 days. Just prior to seeing her, stroke your cock and get yourself hard as you imagine fucking her. Just don't cum...this is just practice to maintain hardness for an extended time, like 5-10 minutes. Then relax and let your dick go soft. Then do it again, remembering not too get too excited or you will defeat the purpose of this exercise. Then relax again and go see her. Do this and you will have a much better (and longer) session with her.

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7. "RE: another newbie question"
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   >i am a newbie and have a few questions. some you may think
>these are silly. but, i need your advice.
>
>1. when showing at the provider's, do i need to bring my own
>towel and toiletries?

Bring your own, who wants a sliver of cheap soap with pubic hairs all over it. And these very frugal ladies have been known to re-use the towels by just throwing them in the dryer without washing them.
>
>2. after showering, do i get fully dressed or do i go out
>wrapped in my towel?

Walk out with the towel draped over your rock hard cock. It never fails to impress them.
>
>3. do i bring my own condoms?

If you are well hung you better bring your own. And these very frugal ladies have been known to re-use condoms and I don't take any chances.
>
>4. if i pop after 15 minutes (or five), what happens to the
>rest of the 1 hr session? must i leave immediately?

Make sure that don't happen by rubbing one out in the shower.

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Argo
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9. "RE: another newbie question"
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Re -

"And these very frugal ladies have been known to re-use condoms and I don't take any chances."

Eh?

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10. "RE: another newbie question"
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Never known any to re-use condoms.

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11. "sCOPerdude"
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   Interesting choice of handles.

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13. "RE: sCOPerdude"
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Does he check his badge and gun with the clerk at the front desk before going to her room?

Anyone need two left-footed shoes?

broadway

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12. "RE: another newbie question"
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   My .02

Assuming incall escort (AMP/AAMP rules are somewhat different, but you didn't specify).

1. when showing at the provider's, do i need to bring my own towel and toiletries?

Any provider that offers shower facilities should be providing the towel and soap (at a minimum)

2. after showering, do i get fully dressed or do i go out wrapped in my towel?

You've just been intimate with the woman, so modesty shouldn't be an issue. My SOP is to always have my wallet on my person AT ALL TIMES. Hence, I go into the shower fully clothed (with my wallet) and emerge from the shower area in a towel but pants in hand, and dress in the room.

3. do i bring my own condoms?

Shouldn't be necessary, but it is a good idea to avoid the "I ran out" excuse that some unscrupulous providers have been known to use. This is typically not a problem for higher class (priced) ladies.

4. if i pop after 15 minutes (or five), what happens to the rest of the 1 hr session? must i leave immediately?

Once again, it depends on the provider. Unless otherwise determined (such as MSOG agreed on in advance), the session is typically over once you pop. Only a low class provider would try to give you the "bum's rush" once you pop. Like a wrestling match (WWE style), it's "one fall (pop) witha 1 hour time limit).

DaiLun

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