Actually, I shower carefully, attend to breath and don't wear underwear/socks. Less hassle at the end of the session. A clean shirt and short pants gets it done. I agree with Lustrous, "I'm not hear to impress her, I'm here to pay her." Spoken like a real pro.

Money talks, bullshit walks. Since I'm on this track, every session is a YMMV situation. Being clean and respectful as well as complimentary to her is going to make things go smoothly. "Wow, you are SO beautiful!"
I get agreement at the get go about what I want and what she's going to get as the donation. If there is hesitation,a sour face or less than compliant attitude from her at that point, I walk. Gone. Haggling over $$ is a big turnoff.

It's all about having fun.

The Eagle has spoken!

Spoken like a true gentlemen and scholar.

However, I'll add some providers (the more sophisticated gold-digger sugarbaby types) are more attuned to men style and treat you differently.

I dress fairly casual but I was surprised at a few providers who can spot the brand of t-shirt or wristwatch I am wearing. For example, I wear egyptian cotton imported t-shirts from the UK called Sunspel and I wear a Panerai or Audemer Royal Oak watch. To most ordinary people, they don't know but most metro-sexuals and gold-diggers can spot it. To most, I look like a slacker - fitted t-shirt, hipster jeans and sneakers.

Well, 2 providers knew the difference and gave me extra services and I dated one off-line as a civilian for a few months.But, these type of women are 'gold-diggers' so they are trained to spot the nuances.

I normally am in flip-flops and a t-shirt.

Dressing is just a small part of who you are. Having the cash, being cleaned up and respectful are the big essential parts.

But these ladies, like us guys, are individuals too, so every little bit adds to the image, the mood, and total experience. And unless you know the lady, you don't know how she'll take it. At worst, she won't notice or care, but at best, she might just think, "yeah, I like that look, or I like the fact that he took the time to think about it." And that's just one small brick in the wall of building a good reputation. Just like life. (Oh fuck now I went too far. )

LM469
Attitude is everything

Some offices encourage neckties as office wear, but do not require it. Some of their clients will be impressed by the implied respect and professionalism that ties imply. Yet other clients will think that the tie-wearer is trying too hard to compensate for lack of something, or is trying to cover up for deficiencies in work skills, or has weak character because they're sucking up to management, or are shallow and superficial because someone told them to dress for the job they want, not the job they have. So much of it depends on how the wearer projects. A confident, engaging guy in business casual will almost always get farther than a hesitant, uncomfortable guy wearing an 800 dollar suit. Sure, the first five minutes matters, but if both parties are actually relying on performance, it's the next 25 minutes that matters more.

Therefore, in that false construct where "everything else being equal" exists, then better dress will tend to engender better treatment. But in the final equation, it's almost always the man who matters, not the gun, not the car, not the suit.

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The provider seemed to be delighted. It was our first encounter.

Can't say it was the Men's Warehouse outfit, but the session was over-the-top. No exaggeration.

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