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DDEALS42
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"New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
 
   Ok first off I want to say that I have been doing this hobby since December when a stupid bitch pissed me off. There was this girl I knew, we were supposed to be going to the club. When I called her to see if we were still going, she never answered. I was sooo pissed, so I got on the internet and I ran into the adult section on the CL. "Hmmm" I thought "This could be interesting". So I called up a girl that night. She was mexican, nice looker, and $100 for the half.

Since then I have done this 5 more times. And just a couple of things I want to ask about the hobby is.

1.Whats up with the racism? Everytime I call I get asked about my nationality(Im black). And when I tell them my race I get hung up on. That makes me want to choke a bitch more than anything.

2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? Have you seen some of them? If you havent just browse this site or CL and you'll see what Im talking about.

3. Im from Cali but I now live and go to school in Texas. Is there another site like RB for other states(Texas...most notably DFW area)

4. Im a college kid with a college budget. And I know what alot of you older hobbyist are thinkin, "This is no hobby for you son". Yeah I know but I live on the edge. My question is: Where can the cheapest escorts be found(website, location, etc.)

5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge extra for that??

6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever caught an STD from this. I havent yet, but theres always one bullet that can kill in a game of Russian roulette.

Let me just say that Im glad that Im not alone in this. For a while I felt like a loser for paying girls for sex. Also I never imagined there were so many slang terms in this underground hobby. I had to break out urbandictionary.com to figure out the words, but as you can see I somewhat caught on...

Just a irrelevant piece of info. My favorite right now is this big girl....yeah she's big. Not disgustingly big. But mamma got some rolls. She gave the best BJ of any that I've ever had(she actually went past the half way point) and was kind enough to let me go past the half I paid for on the first time.

Those are some of my thoughts and questions. BTW a provider named Asia had to put me up on this website a week ago. Big ups to Asia!!

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1. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Aug-10 AT 08:22 PM (PST)
 
Well, let's see if I can answer a few of these one by one and at the same time keep it short and to the point.

1. Racism is often discussed and commented on if you search soapbox, this forum and others. The bottom line is that no one likes it, but in the end would you rather show up after driving some distance only to find out when you get to the door that she won't see you because of race or be told up front and move on?

2. Just pass. With the Internet now, any girl can be a Hooker and make a few bucks regardless of looks. This isn't the 70's or 80's when it pretty much was a job requirement to be fit and trim. I'm not saying anything negative necessarily towards a particular body type (I hate broads with who have small tits for example and a flat ass but that's just me) and in the end, who cares? There is a desire or interest for just about any particular girl out there.

3. This is a site primarily for the SF Bay Area, Sacramento, and Nevada gets a lot of action. If you are in DFW, kind of pointless to bother with this site to be straight with you. There is a United States Forum and U.S. Personals but not very active. Search for Hookers in that Forum.

4. Probably Craigslist in your area.

5. No they don't necessarily do and it's often a dealbreaker if she only offers a CBJ. If someone charges more and you see it in an Ad, I would be very suspicious of more upselling and skip it.

6. Never caught an STD in decades of mongering. Got a slight cold a couple days after seeing a Hooker but can't tell you for sure if it was from her and I only see GFE girls with full menu's. If this is a concern (catching something) then just don't start down this road since you will be constantly worrying.

Glad you don't feel like a loser, no one should. For me it's simple fun and I don't sit around and try to analyze the fuck out of it. If it becomes all consuming or addictive or somehow messes with some other aspects of your life, well, then it just isn't the thing for everyone.

L4B

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DDEALS42
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12. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   6....Again lol. You know...its not a major concern as much as it is just a curiosity. I know the number of escorts with STDs are low simply for the fact that they test so often. The last one told me she gets tested once every....I think 2 weeks maybe sooner than that.

Analyzing stuff is part of my personality. I still have a lot fun, but I cant not question somethings. Thanks for the advice.

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2. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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"1.Whats up with the racism?"

Black guys get discriminated against in this hobby, unfortunately. Get some references and/or build up a good reputation on the various boards, and that'll help some. But unfortunately the best you can do is make people aware of which girls won't see black guys, but be even-headed about it. Being really pissed off isn't going to be constructive, and it's not going to get you laid, either.

"2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? Have you seen some of them?"

Women are free to charge the price they think is fair. If their looks/services aren't worth the price, the girl will soon find that she's not getting enough customers.

"3. Is there another site like RB for other states(Texas...most notably DFW area)"

Try eccie dot net

"4. Im a college kid with a college budget. My question is: Where can the cheapest escorts be found(website, location, etc.)"

Depends on the escort and the services you want. AMPs would probably be cheapest unless you are looking for street action, etc. You may also find that many providers won't see you if you are under 30 years old.

"5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge extra for that??"

My answer from #2 regarding looks/services applies here.

"6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever caught an STD from this. I havent yet, but theres always one bullet that can kill in a game of Russian roulette."

I haven't. Some have. Hobby safe.

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13. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   1. And thats just the thing, in my 6 go rounds I have built a favorable reputation. But dont you think it would make a girl mad if I used her as a reference to get another date? Wouldnt that kinda be like snubbing her for another girl...lol or something like that?

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3. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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>
>1.Whats up with the racism? Everytime I call I get asked
>about my nationality(Im black). And when I tell them my race
>I get hung up on.

There is prejudice in the biz.

Many girls feel that the chances for problems are higher with Blacks. There is just enough truth to this to screw it up for all Blacks.

1. Some pimps, who like tend to be black about 98% of the time, try and date escorts to recruit them. This can turn out to be a major hassle, which girls want to avoid.

2. There are also some kind of pimp-wannabes who come off as disrespectful because they think that's cool.

This is basically a situation where at most 5% of the Blacks are screwing things up for the rest. I think it sucks. But that is the truth of the matter.

>That makes me want to choke a bitch more
>than anything.

Don't really blame you....but how wise is it to say here? If there were any girls reading in Texas, they won't be inboxing you now.
>
>2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? Have you seen
>some of them? If you havent just browse this site or CL and
>you'll see what Im talking about.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Keep in mind, though, that girls sometimes start at a price that is pretty high--but are willing to come down. another point is this: the really pretty ones often can and do coast on their looks. The plainer ones really do have to try harder...and it can make a hell of a difference.

>
>3. Im from Cali but I now live and go to school in Texas. Is
>there another site like RB for other states(Texas...most
>notably DFW area)

Aside from CL, I have no idea. Ask the girls...some might tell you.

>
>4. Im a college kid with a college budget. And I know what
>alot of you older hobbyist are thinkin, "This is no hobby
>for you son". Yeah I know but I live on the edge. My
>question is: Where can the cheapest escorts be
>found(website, location, etc.)

In Texas I have no idea. If you come to the Bay area, I can help you.

>
>5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge
>extra for that??

Most don't charge extra. To many of us, it's a deal breaker. If they won't do BBBJ, we don't do business. Most of them will, if you make it plain that's what you want.
>
>6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever
>caught an STD from this. I havent yet, but theres always one
>bullet that can kill in a game of Russian roulette.

Never. In a lot of years of mongering. There are a lot of posts on this elsewhere, do a search. But it's not nearly as risky as many would want you to think. But it's not risk free either. Frankly, I've posted on some aspects of this a number of times, including recently. As have many others. Do a few searches.


Hope some of this helps.

CG

[What's wrong with sluts? I LIKE sluts!]

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DDEALS42
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14. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   1."There is prejudice in the biz. There are also some kind of pimp-wannabes who come off as disrespectful because they think that's cool."

Interesting...thats all I can say about that...all I can say is that some guys take the music videos a little too seriously.

4. Im in the Bay right now, but will only be here for a limited amount of time.

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4. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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I really encourage you to take advantage of your time in college and to build fun, rewarding, emotional connections with your peers. Most of us would give at the least left nut just to be able to gain entry to the college talent pool.

Unless you are tremendously together, I would think that playing the hobby in college could distort your expectations of sexual relationships and the rewards of building connections with women your age. Aside from the financial burden, seeing escorts over-simplifies the dating relationship and takes you completely out of the "connection loop." I greatly respect, admire and cherish all these wonderful providers, but they simply cannot fulfill any emotional attachment - they have to be very diligent about their boundaries and private lives.

I'm not saying no young guys should be seeing escorts. Hell, I've suggested many dudes try the hobby. But for young guys, escorts help you to get confidence and experience - they cannot be replacements for the warm and wonderful world of friendships, affection, passion and love that's just waiting for you everywhere you look in your college environment.

Good luck....

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6. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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"Seize the moments of happiness, love and be loved! That is the only reality in the world, all else is folly." - Leo Tolstoy

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15. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   "Unless you are tremendously together, I would think that playing the hobby in college could distort your expectations of sexual relationships and the rewards of building connections with women your age."

It wont. College Co-eds and escorts are essentially one in the same. You have to give a little to get a little.

" wonderful world of friendships, affection, passion and love that's just waiting for you everywhere you look in your college environment."

Im well connected and have plenty of friends. But when females start playing hard ball it all comes back to the fact that I am a man and I do have sexual desires and needs just like the rest. Just because I've started this hobby doesnt mean I will shun those experiences. But when nothing is going on.....well ya gotta fill in the blanks.

"escorts help you to get confidence and experience"

I've had some "bad performances". And its tough on you mentally when a girl says to you "I would go out with you but you just dont have the skills I need." Escorts have helped me bounce back from those situations. I'm not saying they think Im good in bed, but a little practice run never hurt anyone.

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18. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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well as the story about the old bull and the young bull .. surveying the cows in the valley below ... "lets walk on down the hill and F uck em all" ... no need to run ! ..

It certainly takes more work to nail a civie... but if you dont get hung up on having to get laid NOW .. or having to lay that particular female.. you can certainly learn the game ... the flirting, and talk that will get you in their pants... Certainly a skill set that will help you in all areas of life..

dong

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5. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   My .02,

1.Whats up with the racism? Everytime I call I get asked about my nationality(Im black). And when I tell them my race I get hung up on. That makes me want to choke a bitch more than anything.

Racism exists. Sad fact of life. There have been several thread on the subject as it applied to the hobby. I am reminded of a account from a fictional work that I read many years ago, where one of the tenents of a streetwalker was "Never f**k a black man for money, and never f**c a white man for free".

2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? Have you seen some of them? If you havent just browse this site or CL and you'll see what Im talking about.

There's someone for everyone. Back in Baltimore there was this one BBW WSW that worked "the block". I asked one of my regulars, "Does Donna get many dates?" She told me that 95% of Donna's clientele were "old skinny black men".

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder".

3. Im from Cali but I now live and go to school in Texas. Is there another site like RB for other states(Texas...most notably DFW area)

Sorry, don't know.

4. Im a college kid with a college budget. And I know what alot of you older hobbyist are thinkin, "This is no hobby for you son". Yeah I know but I live on the edge. My question is: Where can the cheapest escorts be found(website, location, etc.)

You get what you pay for. When I started in the hobby 35+ years ago, escorts were out of my price range, I dated SW at a time when it was relatively save.

5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge extra for that??

Some do, most don't.

6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever caught an STD from this. I havent yet, but theres always one bullet that can kill in a game of Russian roulette.

Yes, some minor and some more serious. It is one of the risks that you have to accept when you play this game. IMHO, the risks are less than tapping some of that "free s**t" running around.

Parting comment. "Black guy?!?!?!" Man, if I was, I'd be exploiting the heck out women that have "Mandingo" or "Jungle Fever" issues. Even if you are getting laid for the "novelty factor", you're getting laid for free!

DaiLun

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16. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   "Parting comment. "Black guy?!?!?!" Man, if I was, I'd be exploiting the heck out women that have "Mandingo" or "Jungle Fever" issues. Even if you are getting laid for the "novelty factor", you're getting laid for free!"

Where are these women??? I want to meet them...lol! Most of the time women of other races look at me like im an animal(Trust me Im soooo not)

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8. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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#4 www.aspd.com not working right now, but has been a good site D/FW area.......

BB


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9. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   > #4 www.aspd.com not working right now, but has been a
>good site D/FW area.......
>
> BB
>

Sir, it is now http://www.eraps.net.

You MUST register for access to their site and IMO, there is a wealth of information for Ladies in the Southwestern US especially.

Good luck,
Lance

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10. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   >Ok first off I want to say that I have been doing this hobby
>since December when a stupid bitch pissed me off. There was
>this girl I knew, we were supposed to be going to the club.
>When I called her to see if we were still going, she never
>answered. I was sooo pissed, so I got on the internet and I
>ran into the adult section on the CL. "Hmmm" I thought "This
>could be interesting". So I called up a girl that night. She
>was mexican, nice looker, and $100 for the half.
>
>Since then I have done this 5 more times. And just a couple
>of things I want to ask about the hobby is.
>
>1.Whats up with the racism? Everytime I call I get asked
>about my nationality(Im black). And when I tell them my race
>I get hung up on. That makes me want to choke a bitch more
>than anything.
>
Escorts usually have no compunctions against seeing men of any race so long as they are adequately remunerated, but, unfortunately, many of them are reticent to see black men. This is not due to any animus against black people, but rather the problems frequently concomitant with seeing black men. Many of them are of an urban(read "ghetto") and misogynistic mindset, and are predisposed to violence. Many also, as some other commenters have pointed out, try to suborn the ladies into becoming their "hoes". This description is applicable to a minority of black men, but this minority is sizable enough to dissuade many escorts from seeing this demographic. The majority of black men most likely just want to get laid, but the small but VERY noticeable minority imparts a negative reputation on the entire demographic.

>2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? Have you seen
>some of them? If you havent just browse this site or CL and
>you'll see what Im talking about.
>
If a corpulent and not very attractive escort is charging an exorbitant price, then market forces will usually assert themselves and drive down the price. There are men out there who are do desperate for female companionship, however, that they'll gladly pay a generous amount of money to be with a woman that most of us would disdain.

>3. Im from Cali but I now live and go to school in Texas. Is
>there another site like RB for other states(Texas...most
>notably DFW area)

Try the Eros Guide and CityVibe for the Dallas-Forth Worth metropolitan area.

>4. Im a college kid with a college budget. And I know what
>alot of you older hobbyist are thinkin, "This is no hobby
>for you son". Yeah I know but I live on the edge. My
>question is: Where can the cheapest escorts be
>found(website, location, etc.)
>
You'd find the cheapest escorts on Craig's List, but you also stand the greatest chance of being robbed by using hookers from this Website.

>5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge
>extra for that??
>
Don't know anything about this.

>6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever
>caught an STD from this. I havent yet, but theres always one
>bullet that can kill in a game of Russian roulette.
>
I ALWAYS use a condom. I don't care about the so-called GFE.

>Let me just say that Im glad that Im not alone in this. For
>a while I felt like a loser for paying girls for sex. Also I
>never imagined there were so many slang terms in this
>underground hobby. I had to break out urbandictionary.com to
>figure out the words, but as you can see I somewhat caught
>on...
>
More men than you would think employ escorts, and even skanky streetwalkers, many of them athletes and celebrities, men who should have no trouble whatsoever getting laid. As a loquacious redneck former coworker of mine once pointed out, men ultimately have to pay for all sex in one way or another.

>Just a irrelevant piece of info. My favorite right now is
>this big girl....yeah she's big. Not disgustingly big. But
>mamma got some rolls. She gave the best BJ of any that I've
>ever had(she actually went past the half way point) and was
>kind enough to let me go past the half I paid for on the
>first time.
>
The best blow job I ever received came from a corpulent blonde whom I would've never looked at once, let alone twice.

>Those are some of my thoughts and questions. BTW a provider
>named Asia had to put me up on this website a week ago. Big
>ups to Asia!!

I hope my advice is helpful.

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11. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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   Escorts entertain men of many different races, especially in ethnically diverse Silicon Valley. I've never had any trouble with an escort being unwilling to see me because of my race, which is Indian(Well, one did ask about my race and she wound up robbing me, but that's an exception.) Many Indian men are darker than most American blacks, yet escorts are more than willing to see them. I think this is due to the fact that a large percentage of Indian men are affluent, law-abiding, educated professionals, and not typically predisposed to violence against women. This is also true of many other Asian demographics, and Middle Eastern men as well.

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20. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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"That makes me want to choke a bitch more than anything."

Hopefully you are starting the hobby for all the right reasons and not all the wrong reasons. But just in case:

http://www.angermgmt.com/

Good luck.

Anyone need two left-footed shoes?

broadway

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21. "RE: New to the game: Just some general thoughts and question(s)"
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1.Whats up with the racism? Dude... that's kinda like wanting to spend your money at a store that doesn't appreciate you??... Keep it moving, there are PLENTY of providers "without" that hangup.

2. Ugly broads charging these high prices? ... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and personally I give the edge to performance. plenty of nice looking ROBS, and lackluster performers out here.

4. Im a college kid with a college budget. ... Wow, with all the free pussy walking around college campuses? You might want to give this hobby a 2nd thought. Maybe it's something for a special occasion.

5. I never knew these girls did bbbj's....do they charge extra for that??.... Dude, DON'T even GO THERE! I guess they don't teach anything about STDs in college?

6. Honestly....and be real with me....have any of you ever caught an STD from this. ... No not me, but there are quite a few that have. Are you FOR REAL?

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