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PaulDurham
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"Impact of free porn on mongering?"
 
   There's been a lot of discussion about how the overall volume of business has been low for the last few years. Relative to three years ago we see fewer providers in RB, lower prices, and several threads in pinkbook about slow business in general.

The conventional wisdom is that the slowdown is due to the economy -- men saving their money instead of spending it on women. I'm wondering about an alternative explanation however: That the availability of free, good quality porn on the internet is reducing demand.

For those of you in the hobby for a good while, has access to free porn cut down on your frequency?

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1. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Aug-10 AT 08:38 AM (PST) by (moderator)
 
Doubt porn is the reason business may be slow. If anything, it would make your desire for sex increase. If your pocket book is the reason you hobby less frequently, porn may be a substitute. Can't hobby because have no money so might as well watch some porn and DIY.

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2. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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LAST EDITED ON 18-Aug-10 AT 01:05 AM (PST)
 
Yeah it's either that or the shitty economy....Porn vs. Fucking is really an apples to oranges comparison other then the fact that watching porn is a gateway to seeing hookers, not an excuse not to see them.

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16. "RE: I'm here mongering because..........."
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there's so much porn it's lost it's appeal. I like the feel of the real thing and not just for the 'gettin' off' part. When I started 3 years ago, porn whet my appetite to make the call and in anticipation of a session, not beating off was easy.

Now, porn almost does nothing for me. It's eye candy, like looking at pictures of exotic cars and extreme sports. Guess I'm just too old and jaded.

When will they market a pill to make me feel like an 18 yr old?

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20. "RE: I'm here mongering because..........."
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   Porn doesn't do it for me either. I prefer the real thing, although it can get quite expensive if you want or need it frequently.

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3. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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I'm with the rest on this one. I don't think the availability of free porn has anything to do with the slowdown and lower prices. The slowdown and lower prices are caused by a lack of buisness due to a lack of jobs and money.

Also, there seems to be so many more providers then just a few years ago and they are all competing in a smaller market which lowers prices. You have women who would have never dreamed of escorting for a living who have been put in that position by a poor economy and still have to pay the bills. There's also a growing Sugarbaby population where the woman might not escort in the traditional way but will be compensated in different ways for sexual favors.

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4. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   I think free on-line porn is a boon for the provider community. My mongering budget would be much less if porn clips didn't get me motivated to pick up the phone

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7. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Agree entirely. Free porn serves to stoke the imagination and the sex drive and has got to be a positive for providers in terms of demand. Economy sucks of course and that I'm sure more than offsets it.

I'd be interested in hearing from long-time providers if they think free porn has changed what clients want (i.e., collectively are we kinkier, more extreme, more demanding?) and overall expectations

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5. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Completely unrelated. It's clearly the economy causing any slowdown.

Unless, as some brothers have said, access to porn increases the desire to see a provider. If porn is used as a substitute it is because of budget, as others have also said.

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6. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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If I were posting a question in this vein, it would be entitled "impact of mongering on free porn." Because in my case, I discovered mongering after porn. And now, suddenly, I have almost no interest in porn -- even the free stuff -- and even though I haven't hobbied in three months.

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8. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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Watching porn makes you want to get laid more but regardless ...

I think "paid" porn (buy or rent) hurt the strip club biz
which forced strippers to enter adult movie biz to make money.
Then "free" porn hurt the adult movie biz forcing pornstars
to enter escorting biz (most were probably escorting before
anyway but now they are doing it more frequently, openly, and cheaper). And with pornstar escorts now available and at cheaper rate I'd
figure the end result has been that free porn has indirectly increased
mongering.

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9. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Its nice to have the free porn, and helps those days when desire is up.

My personal downturn in visits owes itself to general downturn in expendable income, the increase in a lot of ladies prices, and the huge number of references required. Makes it a matter of planning and sharing personal income so I'm less likely to hobby spur of the moment which is what I used to do a lot. Now if its too much work, I got all these great websites so its not too bad.

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10. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   I think that most of the mongers are sex addicts and always horny. Usually watching porn makes me want to pay a visit to an AMP. It all comes down to money supply, not the amount of free porn available.

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11. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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I find after visiting a provider, porn just doesn't take the place.

However, porn does provide some good ideas of what you would like to do when visiting a provider.

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13. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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>I find after visiting a provider, porn just doesn't take the
>place.

Which is EXACTLY why I've had so little interest in porn since my first provider visit earlier this year.

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12. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 19-Aug-10 AT 11:26 PM (PST)
 
I would say that porn has cut down on the frequency of my mongering, and I will tell you why.

There is so much good porn video for free on the internet that I spend more time at home beating off. And after masturbating I am less inclined to go looking for a "provider," because I know it will take more time for me to get hard and get off, and if I'm paying for sex by the hour (or fraction thereof) I want to get my money's worth. If I have a session that is costing me money I want to have at least one great orgasm, and that's difficult to do after a session with Youporn, Pornhub, xvideo, etc. If there is a girl I like and that I am thinking about seeing, I have to plan ahead of time to make sure I don't beat-off for a couple of days to make sure that I enjoy myself to the max when I am with her.

It would probably be worth mentioning that I am in my fifties. Maybe when i was in my twenties I could have beat-off once in the morning and again in the afternoon and still have been able to get an instant hard-on with a live woman in the evening. But I don't have that kind of stamina these days, and I have less "sensitivity" and it in general takes me longer to get off even in the best of circumstances. But back then the women I saw were usually women I was in relationships with, so I didn't have to worry about getting my rocks off while the clock was running. I don't know what my life would have been like then if I had been a monger, and if there had been free 24-hour a day porn movies in my apartment on a computer (which was like unimaginable science fiction at that time.)

Okay, that's enough about my personal life. I'm glad you don't know who I am in the "real" world. I can only tell stories like this because of my RB handle!

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14. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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I agree with this. Sometimes I get really horny and want to go to see a provider. But if I jack off to some porn the urge is gone and I don't feel the overwhelming urge to go. But eventually I get to the point where jacking off makes me want to go even more. So over all I think I have to yes that free porn has resulted in less mongering for me. Especially if I see a couple providers who were not very good or bad experiences.

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18. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Due to the availability of free and quality porn, I've become numb to porn. It doesn't excite me like it did 10 years ago. Before, I'd always jerk off after watching porn. Now I hardly even get aroused - probably from overexposure. I used to go to amps once a month a few years ago, now I go maybe once every 3-4 months because I've realized that jerking off at home saves me $$$ and I'm done in 5 minutes where going to an amp is about a 4 hours ordeal if you consider showering, shaving, driving, parking, etc.

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19. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Maybe for some but nothing beats the physical experience with someone. I think your thought misses the interactive point of this "activity"


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23. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   >Maybe for some but nothing beats the physical experience
>with someone.

I don't think anyone is saying that porn is better than sex with a real person. The was question was about the impact of porn, not the value of the experience. It's just that it is usually easier to log on to an internet porn site than it is to date a live woman. it's not necessarily what I'd prefer.

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22. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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If porn leads to do-it-yourself then you save $200. I used to see a provider every week but now just about once a month.

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24. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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I use to see my ATF once or twice a week, now I am down to hobbying about once every two to three weeks. I am interested to doing some "research" in coping and seeing the impact of free porn on mongering. Does anyone have useful links or websites where a "monger" can get this "free" porn.

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25. "RE: Impact of free porn on mongering?"
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   Google is your friend.......

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