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"coffee first"
 
There seems to be a lot conversations regarding B&S, ROB, references, etc. Wouldn't it all be for not if we met for a cup of coffee first? I must be missing the obvious as to why this wouldn't assure both sides the other is legit.

what, me worry?

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1. "RE: coffee first"
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   "Time is money and money is time".

The ROBs wouldn't be interested and the legit don't want/need "looky-loo's" and time wasters.

DaiLun

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2. "RE: coffee first"
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   >>the legit don't want/need "looky-loo's" and time wasters<<

Agreed. It's a waste of time for both sides. I wouldn't do it. Even if you do even a minimal amount of homework, the ROB and B&S percentages are very low.

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9. "Agree with DaiLun and Lustrous"
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   LAST EDITED ON 02-Sep-10 AT 10:03 PM (PST)
 
Unless you are will to pay her hourly rate, or close to it, for having coffee many and probably most legit escorts wouldn't go for it--unless they are having a very slow week or something. This isn't just theory--I've heard them turning such offers down.

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FriscoJack

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19. "RE: Agree with DaiLun and Lustrous"
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With unreviewed ladies I require it, off the clock. If they don't agree, for whatever reason, I move on. Most are willing.

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3. "RE: coffee first"
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This girl is right up your alley then:

http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=184890

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5. "RE: coffee first"
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>This girl is right up your alley then:
>
>http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=184890

That one's pretty hilarious, especially the picture.

Here's another:

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So, I guess the bottom line is that there ARE some ladies who go this route. This one has a different ad and some reviews out there too if you do have an interest and it's worth doing some google searching first to see if this is what you're interested in. I was somewhat intrigued til I really started reading further, still haven't entirely crossed her off the list and it's the whole date-me-first thing that I find kind of refreshing/bizarre.

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11. "RE: coffee first"
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   >This girl is right up your alley then:
>
>http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=184890

"Party like it's 1699" -- I like a sense of humor!

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4. "RE: coffee first"
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There are ladies who prefer this but it's risky. I met a provider up in Portland last month who was well reviewed (on a provider-run board filled with 'Barney' reviews). She was pleasant enough but the reality of her in person compared to her pics was disconcerting. She was easily 5-10 years older and 20lbs heavier than what her pics depicted her being. I was polite but told her that I was taking her up on her offer of 'if you don't like what you see...'. She wasn't happy but took it like a pro. I did offer to pay for her coffee...

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6. "Wait !!!"
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LAST EDITED ON 01-Sep-10 AT 07:54 PM (PST)
 
Oh boy, this would be an unacceptable addition to Hoss's TOFFT workload.

And NvH ain't got enough time for such niceties. He might have to move closer to civilization.

Of course I'd be happy with this little formality. Since I can't get to gatherings, I'd love some low cost facetime with our lovely ladies.

LM469
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8. "RE: offered to pay for her coffee"
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   Did she accept?

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7. "RE: coffee first"
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   Meeting for coffee has worked for me three out three times. Met at a
local Peets. All three are 5 star and have been for several years.
All three are my ATFS.

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10. "RE: coffee first"
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   >There seems to be a lot conversations regarding B&S, ROB,
>references, etc. Wouldn't it all be for not if we met for a
>cup of coffee first? I must be missing the obvious as to why
>this wouldn't assure both sides the other is legit.
>
>what, me worry?


You want to hire a hooker to have coffee? I'm sure she'd be happy to take your $300.

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13. "RE: coffee first"
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That's quite an attitude you have there TunaBoy.
Think about it though - He's not hiring a lady to have coffee with him. He's having coffee with a lady to assess if he wants to hire her for something more. She doesn't take his $300 until after coffee is over. So, how's he possibly spending $300 for coffee?

Lot's of guys do that, like all the time.
Some gentleman of means even hire 'hookers' for an entire evening, weekend, or longer. Many professional companions sepecialize in traveling with men on business or vacations.

There's a lot of variation out there.
You should think about and be tolerant of folks who operate way beyond the the one-hour-suck-and-fuck mentality.

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14. "RE: coffee first"
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   To me/for me tis the best route.However MOST do not agree to it.
Pictures can be deceptive.Photoshop and the like.
Some minor but important details pertaining to personal hygenie can be found out as well.
It seems to me that if one is going to get a couple of hundred $'s why not be open to a 15 minute meeting with NSA.?
Seems it does not work that way.? If it has it has been with 'moonlighters' if you will.

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15. "RE: coffee first"
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   It works with non-pro's looking for an arrangement or a paid date. With pro's their scarce resource is time, so most will not meet unless you are on the meter. Also most are wary of meeting in a public place for security reasons.

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16. "RE: coffee first"
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   I had one provider actually do this. A Newb might do it. But really to be safe all you need to know if the following:

1. No incalls to any ghetto neighborhoods.

2. No black chicks, overly ghetto writing, or eubonics on the phone (sorry)

3. Only use very large legit hotels where there are too many people for the staff to know or care. There are plenty in SF. Did you ever go in the Marriot on 4th at Mission. It's massive. No one will notice you at all.

4. Outcall to your home is absolutely the best. You control everything. Just give them the street corners and meet them outside. Do not provide them with a house number, or apt number - ever. That way you can bail if it doesn't feel right.

5. On the phone always ask how recent the photos are, if they hesitate for a second forget it. They should insist up and down they look exactly like the girl in the pic. Tell them you will make them go home if the pic is deceiving.

Hope this helps.

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17. "RE: coffee first"
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   I have met the escorts before at a place near their incall.
Over a drink/coffee she would decide if you are cool to
session with.Never paid for this other than the drinks.

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18. "RE: coffee first"
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   I have met a few women over coffee before deciding to session with them.
I think that it is a good way to see if there is some chemistry and to find out if she really looks like her pictures if she sent them to you.
Most of the women in Las Vegas prefer to meet you in the bar before going up to the room. They feel safer that your not LE or some ugly fat slob or some weirdo. I don't have a problem with it. Of all the ones I did meet before had only one was a total druggie and came off as a rob. The vibe wasn't there and thought if she isn't nice having a cup of coffee with then the session won't be nice.

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