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POLL: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of service do you normally seek? Also, what is your relationship status? Note, if you are in a sexless relationship, put yourself down as single.
Posted by coe_ii on 01-Sep-10, 08:14 PM PST
Result after a total of 145 votes

FBSM/Covered Service no kissing - Single 3 votes, 2% Vote for this choice
FBSM/Covered Service no kissing - Significant Other 10 votes, 6% Vote for this choice
GFE Lite - Single 9 votes, 6% Vote for this choice
GFE Lite - Significant Other 3 votes, 2% Vote for this choice
RBGFE - Single 69 votes, 47% Vote for this choice
RBGFE - Significant Other 46 votes, 31% Vote for this choice
Don't pay for sex -Single 3 votes, 2% Vote for this choice
Don't pay for sex -Significant Other 2 votes, 1% Vote for this choice

 
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PaulDurham
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1. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   WTF is "GFE Lite" anyway? GFE service with 30% fewer calories? I propose that before we allow a term to enter the lexicon, that it actually have a definition. Last time I checked "GFE Lite" was just a bogus marketing phrase.

I'd say it's high time we commission a blue-ribbon committee of Redbook's finest to study this matter and report back to us with a proposal.

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coe_ii
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2. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   The term GFE Lite is defined as "GFE lite = light GFE, girlfriend experience with CBJ" per the terms and acronyms here: http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID15/2.html

That's why I used the term in the poll.

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HighSteppermoderator HighStepper rating
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8978 posts, 164 feedbacks, 304 points		 03-Sep-10, 12:23 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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>I'd say it's high time we commission a blue-ribbon committee
>of Redbook's finest to study this matter and report back to
>us with a proposal.

Guess you missed last year's memo.

Too much sex is still not enough

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HMS916 HMS916 rating
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557 posts, 27 feedbacks, 53 points		 19-Sep-10, 00:49 AM (PST)
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19. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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I have the memo "Office Space" LMAO


only in America HMS

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alphawolf1 alphawolf1 rating
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12. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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>WTF is "GFE Lite" anyway? They bitch and moan less.

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letsplaypokeher
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13. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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Hahahaha! True LMAO moment.

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Herb408 Herb408 rating
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3. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   One voter here says that he doesn't pay for sex.
What is he doing here, then -- working on a PhD thesis?
Or maybe he just pays for the lady's time.

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5. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   Herb maybe he's a pimp, there's a lot of those on this site and I doubt any of them have a PhD.

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Mrgetsome24 Mrgetsome24 rating
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6. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   They don't even have much of a brain let alone anything else.

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jamal213
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20. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   >One voter here says that he doesn't pay for sex.
>What is he doing here, then -- working on a PhD thesis?


yes

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coe_ii
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7. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   Well, I think the results of this poll are very interesting.

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8. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Sep-10 AT 04:27 PM (PST)
 
I suspect there are more married and people with SOs who prefer the safer options, such as AMP with HE only, for example. However they're not volunteering in the poll. So far.

I've had private correspondence with one guy who first went to AMPs and then to an AAMP and he felt guilty or whatever, and wrote about those "dirty girls" at the latter. I don't think he was liberated or had inate fears. Or was Catholic.

Prof

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9. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   curious777

One of the most fascinating things about this poll so far is the strong confirmation it gives to some observations Annika made some time ago about "no kissing."Almost no one who voted goes to providers who don't kiss. i can't find the exact thread or remember the specific points she made but I think that she typically very pertinently asked clients why they would go to a provider who refused this really key aspect of intimacy and a complete sexual experience.

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16. "I never liked kissing"
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   Kissing was always one of those annoying things I just had to do in order to get laid, like making money and dressing up. Just a cost of doing business. Now, kissing PUSSY, on the other hand, that I love doing and always have. It's not so complicated-- the pussy doesn't kiss back, it just lays back and takes what I give it.

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17. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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'...why they would go to a provider who refused this really key aspect of intimacy and a complete sexual experience."

I've read many times how guys don't kiss because they get turned off by the thought that the previous customer may have deposited a load. Also, some guys (many married others not) are strict about always wearing a condom (cbj & cfs) and don't want the risk of herpes from kissing.

They refuse the really key aspect of intimacy because ... well... the act isn't about intimacy for them.



Two roads diverged and I chose the road down south

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10. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   LAST EDITED ON 09-Sep-10 AT 09:21 PM (PST)
 
So far, this poll is as expected. Similar to many others with the exception you have included whether someone is single or has an S/O.

In a few instances, in FBSM, some Men will post that they believe they aren't cheating if just getting a HJ. Vaguely recall the details of what the precise topic was about, but "kind of" makes sense to a degree.

Maybe since DFK is considered "intimate" (as some Hookers reserve it strictly for their b/f's or pimps) the same could be true for the married guys and not an essential element, dealbreaker, or just feel uncomfortable doing so? Just speculation.

If you just asked GFE v Non-Gfe and searched earlier polls, you would find many where over 85% of the replies were votes for GFE (we didn't typcially use or have the need for RBGFE since everyone was clear and there wasnt't the Hooker invented "GFE Lite" term back then).

Right now the leading votes are.

RBGFE - Single 47 votes, 52%
RBGFE - Significant Other 27 votes, 30%

Suspect the RBGFE for those with S/O's will pick up before locking and considering based strictly on past polls, 1/2 the Men on the board are married with slight variances over the years since polls were introduced.

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letsplaypokeher
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14. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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LAST EDITED ON 11-Sep-10 AT 01:09 AM (PST)
 
I know I'm cheating, but I feel less guilty about it if I don't DFK another chick. That's all there is to it for me. I'll plow til the cows come(home), but I feel that's just that primal part of me that believes monogamy is strictly for the birds. DFK is far more intimate.

I'm open to it, but that's when I find my ATF. We'll see...

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15. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   Sure wish I understood this poll -- on second thought, I probably don't want to know.

Life beins at 50 ... or so.

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18. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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I still havent figured out my relationship status yet. On facebook my live-in sex partner says she's "single".

I screwd my brains out. whats your excuse?

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21. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   I'm single. I always play safe. I don't need a FBSM. A simple hug will do. Nice conversation so she feels comofortable, appreciated, and respected. I like to run my hands along the beautiful soft body of every naked provider I see. Nothing greater on this Earth than the female anatomy in all its naked glory. If she gets the urge and feels like doing some serious DFK, she will find that I do that very well. This rarely happens though as I find that most providers don't prefer to kiss. A covered BJ for a very short time is enough to get me going and multiple positions and multiple pops are all I ask for. I don't need GFE. It's always a bonus for me when she cums.

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22. "RE: Level of Escorting versus Relationship Status: What level of"
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   I wanted to participate in this poll but there is no selection for Just Fuck My Brains Out.

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23. "This is fucking low!"
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   Pimp out your GF? Geez.

"Don't pay for sex -Significant Other"

Happily ever after, still!

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