Viet Nam and Laos are lovely over XMAS, or try Myanmar which has a good scene in Yangon by most accounts. Cambodia is but a shell of its former self according to the regulars, but Angkor is unique and worth a visit even without the action.

I'm proud of myself for not bashing Spain's job and the end results in the Phils and Mexico. I guess that's the result of millions of kids and do nothing governments, too.

Thanks to everyone replying...

Yes, this is my fear. That TH is so completely unique in that it is:
1. Very easy to get around and with nice but affordable lodging
2. The people are friendly (more so if you have $$$ of course)
3. It's relatively safe - minimal or no crime
4. The strange but great thing of massage businesses all over the place
5. This is a preference, but I love Thai food
6. Mongering options from HE massage to the craziest things you can dream up (though like fieldofdreams - I hardly even monger anymore - though it is nice to have an option for companionship or a massage should the desire strike you).
7. Many things to do, beaches, mountains, the capital city has plenty of great restaurants and clubs/bars.

I'd be willing to try PI. I've certainly enjoyed Surfer's and others' trip reports over the years. However, I have zero interest in Angeles as it appears to be strictly a monger's heaven without anything else to do. And Manila sounds a bit daunting to a newbie like me. Obviously there are some scenic, beautiful places to go in PI but, unless I'm mistaken, seems much harder to get around than flying up to Chiang Mai or down to Phuket. What places in PI would be comparable to CNX and Phuket? Has Surfer ever written a comprehensive guide? Would love to see something like this.

I suppose what drew me to Indo is the renown beauty and seems there is a lot of massage there. Also dated an Indo girl this last year and from what I learned it appeared they are a friendly, laid-back culture. Indo food is decent too. From what I hear the Indo girls really like the foreigners - I actually prefer to meet civilian females if possible. Seem to remember reading some reports on here about finding a companion for a day or night trip. Fieldofdreams, sounds like you have a great thing going with some contacts already lined up - great for you!

I'd be curious to hear more about PI and Indo...

The other places mentioned - HK, PI - have SOME of what you want, but with major chunks missing.

HK doesn't really have much in the way of opportunities for travel to mountain villages etc or great tropical beaches. And the food in PI is just horrible, whether local or Western food. (What is that nasty taste/smell that all the food has, is it rancid cooking oil?)

Infrastructure is inferior to LOS but not hard to fly to the beauty.
BYOB is better for most the remote areas i prefer, but girls can be found for sure even in the most far flung corners.

Camus I have just started a compilation of photo essays of the best beaches.

Sometime I will consolidate the many PI reports (a lot never posted here) and share a link.

I love Indonesia also and rate Indo girls as tops (along with Filipinas). Plus it is dry season there now. But wait until after Ramnadan which starts next week I believe (moderator of another board is in jakarta now and describes elevated polisi activity).

I couldn't even find french fries that didn't have that disgusting taste. What is that? A salad better than at the high school cafeteria? Forget it.

I can certainly accept that others are likely a lot less picky than me, but come on now - the food sucks.

Is the food as good as Thailand? Not by a long shot if you like a lot of Asian cuisine, but it's a lot more white middle-American friendly.

MH: I HATE Jollibee. Just an example, IMHO the roasted chicken at the Kenny Rogers chain is WAY BETTER than anything you can get a chain here (maybe Boston market). There is lots of good Asian food, Korean and Japanese at least, in most Filipine cities. Angeles and manila have GREAT teppanyaki, sushi, bulgoggi etc.