LAST EDITED ON 08-Jul-10 AT 07:42 PM (PST)
Hmmmmmm : Ok the title to this post sounds wack .. but ur the wack fucker reading it ! ...
anyhow
One of the necessities of a great orgasm is blood flow .. just ask the makers of viagra... lol soooooo To get the blood to flow to the correct regions of a woman ... try some light "tapping" on the outer vagina...
Don't start just schwaking the shit out of it.. the idea is .. to get your partner comfortable.... let her know what you are thinking and why.. and if she is open to it ... let say a 2 or 4 fingered tapping on the mons .. and then get a little firmer .. then stop .. make sure she is comfortable ..
the idea is .. get the blood flowing to the nether regions .. its not about hurting anyone .. but yea .. if your partner starts to realize that the light tapping/spanking is making them hot .... you might find yourself schwacking ... more/harder than usual 
she may just cum harder than usual ...
FYI
play hard and cum harder
dong