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POLL: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to avoid as long as it is in their ad?
Posted by jam_lover on 15-Jan-13, 08:06 PM PST
POLL ENDED: Result after a total of 40 votes

YES I want to avoid those high risk girls 9 votes, 22%
Yes I love BBFS and want to know who offer it 25 votes, 62%
No 6 votes, 15%

 
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jam_lover
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1. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 15-Jan-13 AT 08:23 PM (PST)
 
I posting this poll as a follow up my thread in Sac that got edited. you can read the story here :


http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID21/47627.html

and it is not hard to realize that I created this poll as well in association:

http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/soapz/19420.html

and it is not hard to know who is the lady who does this. her self promotion in this soap box forum is obvious as a the sum in a summer day so GET ready to take care as she is ~*~Getting Ready For You???~*~ !!!

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AnnikaShae AnnikaShae rating
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14. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   I have just one question; you posted 24 times in less then the 24 hours since you made this handle? You really make it far too easy to connect the dots, you know. All of your handles have one thing in common; they are truly above the level of idiocy.

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2. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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War on crime
War on poverty
War on drugs
War on obesity
War on terror
War on graffiti
War on Gangs
And now drum roll and trumpets blaring, the resurrection of a War on BBFS providers

People like you SCARE the HELL out of me. Self righteous sanctimonious hypocrites that out of ignorance of facts, with a “war mentality” will without care or consideration reek havoc.

You are a coward among cowards like the “Night Riders” of old wearing white sheeted hoods to avoid being recognized as they performed their dastardly deeds. The fact that you create a fake handle speaks volumes about your lack of character and conviction to YOUR cause.

This subject of creating a list has been discussed ad nauseam by people using their standard RB handle. We have discussed prevailing practices among the offering of services by providers and hobbyists that are interested in various services. There are hobbyist and providers that engage in scatological activities. This is not for me, but I don’t go on a Salem witch burning crusade after these people. Go create your own website and then you can put in place whatever screening and disclosure practices you choose.

We have a medical forum on RB were people can get information about the level of risks associated with the hobby. There are links and suggestion on how to obtain the most current information. People are advised to do their research and consult their healthcare professional in making their decision on what level of risk to take.

We have extensive research tools and approaches to determine the characteristics of providers we wish to take the risk of seeing. A risk that is at an acceptable level because we have done our due diligence.

I know this is going to be a very difficult concept to wrap your narrow opinionated mind around, but I can use a CONDOM to protect myself from the provider that might offer someone BBFS. What can I use to protect me from the zealots like you?

You are like those people that run “john school” that proclaim that guys who see hookers are broken and can’t function in a committed relationship and have problems with intimacy.


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jam_lover
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16. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   war on BBFS.. what is nonesense that your spewing over the forum here!!!

you have a good command of the english langage but that is all what I got out of this post.

ladies have a list of guys who ask for BBFS and ban them as high risk client. we need to have a list for those who offer "secretly" BBFS so that hoppyist can avoid if they want.

if you think you are smart enough to protect yourself then that is fine, this poll is NOT for you but I want to avoid those ladies and there is nothing wrong with that.

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AnnikaShae AnnikaShae rating
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21. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jan-13 AT 01:53 AM (PST)
 
Anybody who makes 24 posts in less then 24 hours on their first day of having a handle is not somebody to take seriously, regardless of whatever the post may be about. Apparently you need for me to spell it out to you, judging by you inability to pick up on subtle suggestion.

The only reason that a person who just created a handle and is posting at the pace of one post every single hour in the 24 hours of that day (hopefully you slept some time, which would make it even more frequently then that) would be that they were either trying to get their post count up very quickly (with the idea that people see those with higher post counts as more credible members); they are just a troll that is going on a random, shit-stirring, posting binge because they are a total loser who's life is void of anything other then misery, envy and rage; they are just using the new handle to "back up" their actual handle(s) and the 24 posts are the result of them going around to all of the posts that they had written in other handle(s) and making some lame statement in agreement (or vice versa); or a combination of all of these motives for being an excessively prolific "newborn" handle.

Regardless of the reason, the fact remains that you are afraid to say any of this in the handle by which people associate with yourself in the flesh, and therefore it is mindless dribble unworthy or even being acknowledged. I say the same thing to every person hiding behind some alias. Grow some balls and post as your self, or don't fucking post at all. Nobody cares what your make believe online persona has to say. They probably would care what YOU have to say, or at least I would care, but saying it under the guise of your pop up, newborn handle renders it unimportant.

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22. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jan-13 AT 02:03 AM (PST)
 
LMFHAO -- laugh my fake handle ass of. I have no other active handles for that matter or another handle that I post with. in fact I am lurker who rarely do post.

ad hominem attack disguised under a Shaksperian persona and delivered by a MILF. yaawwn.. it seems that you have nothing constructive or critical to say regarding the context of my post and as such you resorted to ad hominem attack. no comment from my side. When and IF you wan tot discuss the content of my post please let me know and we can engage each other in a fruitful dialouge.

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23. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jan-13 AT 06:59 AM (PST)
 
>LMFHAO -- laugh my fake handle ass of. I have no other
>active handles for that matter or another handle that I post
>with. in fact I am lurker who rarely do post.

You consider yourself a lurker and yet you have over 40 posts in two days !

>ad hominem attack disguised under a Shaksperian persona and
>delivered by a MILF. yaawwn..

Recently I had a disagreement with AnnikaShae. I was gone from here for over 4 years so I don't know much about her. I was impressed with the fact that she is one of the very few around here that at least attempts to give constructive criticism. That's more than 99% of us ( myself included) are capable of doing. I am the last guy in the world to lapdog it up, so don't even think of going there.

After that thread I decided that it's not a good idea to single out any one girl to poke fun at. From now on I will try to poke fun at them collectively.

What you are attempting to do goes waaay beyond poking fun at somebody. It is clearly a malicious attempt to harm or ruin some girl's reputation. Unless you are 5'6" and 140 pounds soaking wet, there is no way that some broad is going to overpower you and force you into BBFS.

I have my own DNS list. Since I am into the Sugarbabe thing, I don't see RB girls who have profiles at SB sites. They can try to use different names and pictures but it's not difficult find out if they are really pros. It's not just RB girls either. There are non-RB utr girls and others who try to fool us. In many cases I've gotten private pictures that they sent, dug up personal info and other private things about them. This is done strictly to eliminate them from consideration as Sugarbabes so spare me the "stalkercard."

In some cases we have even told them that they should take down a profile from one of the various social/ professional networks because anybody who does a search could via images or google could find out who they really are.

NONE of the daddies I know of would print private info we might dig up because that is the type of thing that could ruin somebody's life.

Just because you don't agree with something some girl does privately does NOT give you the right to try to ruin her reputation and/or career.

It's never been a big secret that some well reviewed girls offer BBFS to a few selected customers. Others are "retired"/UTR but still see a few customers that they give BBFS to. Testing is done on a regular basis.

What about the girls who advertise it and offer it to any guy who wants to partake? The main bitch in this group is consenting adults doing what they want with their bodies. I would not partake in a situation like that but I certainly would not try to stop others from doing it.

I think you are some guy on a witch hunt. Personally I am tired of people coming into a group like this and acting like anti-sex religious nuts. I'm tired of people trying to create hysteria over BBFS.

To top it off, some malicious asshole might put some girl on your list to try to ruin her reputation. I'm 99.9% sure some idiots would do things like that.

Why not worry about your own life and let consenting adults decide what level of risk they feel comfortable with?


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3. "Do you want to create a list of who offer BS"
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So we can avoid their posts.


So much pussy.

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4. "RE: Do you want to create a list of who offer BS"
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>So we can avoid their posts.

Brilliant.

A horrible disease could get us if we read their posts.

Thank you I hadn’t thought of that.


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5. "RE: Do you want to create a list of who offer BS"
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>A horrible disease could get us if we read their posts.

That's the way AMPFan seems to feel about my inbox messages

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6. "BBFS List"
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Here's my contribution:


- Most girls who work at AAMPS !!!

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7. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 16-Jan-13 AT 04:45 PM (PST)
 
Another useless and worthless poll just like your last one obsessed with the same subject. Is there by any chance one of your other handles is Shannonstar18? or is it HottestLatinaLover?

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jam_lover
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19. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   her handle is Fattest_Larine_Ever as given to her by the other whore called SLD a.k. Stacy_Loves_Discks. who is shannonstar18? I don't know this whore.

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8. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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You remind me of william. Yes you does.

So, you say "as long as it's in their ad". What you're saying is you want to create a list of the obvious? Knock yourself out, Cap'n Save-A-Trick. If guys aren't reading the ads thoroughly enough to see they offer BBFS, then what makes you think they're going to read your list of vendetta...er, I mean, ladies who allegedly offer BBFS?

And the lady you so discreetly refer to in your initial reply - where is BBFS mentioned in her ad?


--Et suppositio nil ponit in esse

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9. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   She removed BBFS from her ad, most likely when someone told her what the abbreviation meant.

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10. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   You wouldn't believe how many do....i know of one who does it 2x or 3x weeklyfor only $60! She is posted right now....one provider told me she had morebare back sex off rb than on....so itd out there my friend.

HB

As for.this cover everything..safe or what ever..yeah right.

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11. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   This is a senseless poll. Even if a provider offers BBFS they could not force a monger to partake. As long as mongers are not forced to partake, there is nothing to be concerned about.

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12. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   Obviously you don't know much about the difference between the big head and the little head and their relative influence over the MALE.

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13. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   The Scarlet Letter(s).

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15. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 17-Jan-13 AT 08:07 AM (PST)
 
I simply never want to engage in BBFS

BUT

People who believe they can control human behavior by stigmatizing one group should only need to look at anti-hobby political group. Are they changing anyone's behavior?

It also goes squarely against the " REAL" HIV prevention advocacy group's effort.

Too emotional too naive and too amateurish reaction to serious issues. I guess some people feel so bad and low about what they do that they need to accuse some group of people within the community who they want to accuse as BAD. Why do stupid people just love to create a betrayer amongst themselves and put them on a stake.

Exactly the same type of women made hobby and alcohol illegal in the beginning of 20th century. Now they created whole new group of women who are labeled " BAD" or " VICTIMS"in our society. Where is the unity of women? Where is united group of people who need to fight the real fight against criminalization?

makes me want to vomit.

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17. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jan-13 AT 00:52 AM (PST)
 
yawwwnnnn.. everyone here is putting the preacher hat and invite himself to give a lecture.

man, it is much simpler than that. I do not want to associate myself with someone who offer BBFS,. I also don't associate myself with providers who offer greek or CIM in their ad or in theri reviews. simple and clear. it is my preference. I interpret it as she is a high risk taker. what I am saying is that I also want to have a category for BBFS and leave it for everyone to decide. I myelf would avoid and I know many who would.

it is not like I look down to them but it is my decision. you understand that or it is hard for you to understand english?

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18. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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We get what you want and we acknowledge your right to want it.
What YOU don’t get is YOU not us, need to do your research to get what you want.

This subject of creating a list has been discussed ad nauseam by people using their standard RB handle.

I’m sorry you missed all those postings, long story short, what you are proposing will be a drama filled nightmare.


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20. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   finally you acknowledged me HS!! man thanks God.

I am NOT trying to put anything on your or shove it down the throat of RB hobbyist, I am creating a poll so that to start a discussion about this topic. If most people don't like it then lets just move on. simple and clear and I have no idea why all this backlash that I Am getting out of a simple poll.

and yes I must do my reserach and that is i will copy her every ad that lists BBFS so that even when the provider removes it, it will still be documented over RB that she does BBFS or did it once in her ad.

that was ALL my point.

and see my other thread with that Summer girl. She said that two very well established Sac providers DO BBFS even if it is not on her ad. I am just looking for a documented proof not a word of moutch that could be used to stigmatize other providers.

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25. "RE: Do you want to create a list of provider who offer BBFS to av"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-Jan-13 AT 07:01 PM (PST)
 
It is easy to read what you are trying to do.

Once you create a list it will goto a anti BB service women's private forum and the next move is to start harassment against providers who were documented as BB providers.

Manipulation looks ugly and stupid where ever it appears.. Men certainly do manipulate but so do women. In both cases, soon or later it will be exposed.

If you see the wrong in clients action why not do it differently and do it in the right way?
If you really care about women's health, find the way to collaborate with time tested HIV prevention organizations with sex workers as their focus.

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24. "You've been outed, asshat!"
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http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID21/47635.html#9

"I hope I have the power to stop this uggle hobby."

Bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha!!!1!

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