I think it would be nice if every provider would list exactly what they do and what they don't. I have seen a few profiles with the " No GFE!!" Some even looked really upset that someone asked the question. I appreciate when they explain from the get go " No bare nothing, no greek, no CIM, no facial etc" Usually when they go to a lenghty explanation of their wonderful personality and brains with NO hourly rate...it is an upsale or bait and switch. I don't care how beautiful they are if you are unable to do virtually anything;having covered rushed sex with a provider that won't let you even grab her breasts for $ 200 is a bad deal to me.
I wish it was a rule to have them specify rates, services and don'ts, maybe even a check list of do's and don'ts; that would avoid lots of misunderstandings and crappy service.
Here's what one provider posted on another site to a very similar question...
"Most women won't discuss specific services or rates, not because it's improper, but because it's illegal. While certain questions are indeed tacky to ask, it's definitely more about the legal aspect than anything else. If I tell you, 'yes, my rate is XXX/hr and this includes A, B, C, and XXX + Z,' then I've just incriminated myself in writing."
and that rule is called etiquette; the real meaning of class.
chances are most of the providers already met were young, knew your a newbie, never had a real job, straight out of high school (maybe dropped out), looking to take the next big opportunity at someone's expense, up-sells the service in the middle of the session... aka. the hustle.
in not knowing the provider's menu, read the reviews posted and gather details of what is offered at what rates. pay no attention of the YMMV; it's a confused term coming from the strip joints in a PLs search of higher mileage.
if insisting to see a provider without any reviews - TOFTT'n - ask for the basic full service session. still skeptical, offer half the donation in the beginning and set the rest on the table out in the open to be received at the end. if too many rules are given out or she acts like a bot, the menu was never listed because of the "upscale" location.
avoiding lots of misunderstanding and crappy service involves doing research. maybe service is not up to par with the rest of the world as of yet. maybe because American comprehension was never part of proficiency in having to understand basic English communication. maybe a menu is just another excuse not to know what inclusive means as opposed to being exclusive.
it would be nice to have some class for once instead of having to figure out a menu... Oochie Wally! waiter check please.
"if insisting to see a provider without any reviews - TOFTT'n - ask for the basic full service session. still skeptical, offer half the donation in the beginning and set the rest on the table out in the open to be received at the end. if too many rules are given out or she acts like a bot, the menu was never listed because of the "upscale" location."
How does that work? Are you going to deduct $10 for things you don't like? Butt too big, sorry,,, -$10. Toothy BJ, another -$10. Don't offer CIM, a big no-no,,,-$20. Here is the rest of what I owe you...
What do they say when you try that stunt?
For me, this activity has always been YMMV. If you don't like what you see, you can always walk. If you have a question about her service, check her reviews. If she doesn't have reviews or the reviews are suspect, you can take your chances and TOFTT. But if you play, you pay.
>> "I exclusively find all of my play partners for LA on CV Asian Escorts. Most treat you like a BF who been away on a business trip for a month and can't wait to 'jump his bones'."
consistency is what we are all after... you'd never want to pull that stunt!
this is about the general providers out here. true that every game, it's all the same. YMMV is an excuse for inconsistency for any not giving their best... On a Good Day!
Anybody who has even a minimum exposure to the K-girl scene knows , that special treats not withstanding ,the menu is almost standard although some girls may not rim and most do not swallow.