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bigsplash
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"Race matters"
 
   Ok so unfortnatuely for me race does matter because most girls assume am a pimp due to being afrian american and my physical built but for god sakes I have glasses.Lol not sure if they does anything.I have posted before about this problem but it has gotten a lot better.recently I been on inty a lot and finally got the attention of this one sw that ketp blowing me off.I think its because times are tough and its the end of the month but never less man was that a good session.Then about another week or so I spoke to one girl on the phone.When I got there she said oh yea what race are you.I said african american and she says sorry I don't date blacks.WTF.kinda pissed.I drove 30 mins got to the hotel I really wanted to go dairey of an angry black man but I didn't.what would that have solve. So any body any new info on how I should approach gurls?Just some act racial like this but I know it happens a lot.stupid little ass want to be pimps.

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otto_ox
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1. "RE: Race matters"
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   try and dress like the dorks on the lintel commercials... buy a pocket protector and fill it up with leaky ink pens.... ;)

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2. "RE: Race matters"
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Remember "Urkel"?

Even he didn't get laid.

Nowadays, Jaleel White is trying to live down the character we remember him for.

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3. "RE: Race matters"
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   "I really wanted to go dairey of an angry black man"

Did you you mean "Diary Of An Angry Black Man"? Otherwise, I'm having trouble understanding what milk cows have to do with the situation.

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4. "RE: Race matters"
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   That's an unfortunate truism in this sport. If you walked the streets a little you'd see why, Cars of young dudes circling the girls yelling out that they need a new dude, etc. The pressure is on for the few dollars these girls bring in. Kidnapping is a common business plan.

Good advice from above, dressing up a little Urkel won't hurt your chances.

Cruisin and playin the radio...

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juicylady
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5. "RE: Race matters"
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   don't listen to them...take it from someone whose often discriminated because of race...simply say in your most calm most square voice that you are not a pimp...some girls may take it as a trick statement if you look all thugged out and what not...some girls who've been in situations with such and can handle themselves may take a chance and speak to you...i've dated a couple of blacks who have looked thugged out and have asked them straight up if they were pimps and if they said no...all was game because i wasn't out of pocket...for some girls that have been in the game...they can spot a pimp from a mile away so if you just have that aura about you then no one will speak to you...but like i said...try approaching one with your most calm most square voice and let them know as they walk away that you are not a pimp...trust...you'll have a better chance at getting someone's attention.

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delano
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103 posts, Rate delano		 25-Aug-10, 02:39 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: Race matters"
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   LAST EDITED ON 25-Aug-10 AT 03:03 PM (PST)
 
This is so true and I've been wanting to write about this same issue myself. I am an African Amercian but mixed with Creaole, educated w/ two degrees, Army Ranger background. Currently an Executive for a major software company.

It amazes me how these girls on RB will have "No African American Men" or will ask you your nationallity. I feel that if you hang in the hood and date pimps thugs and the common criminal up to no good or the Boyfriend that is pushing his girl out there (Want To Be Pimp and All of the Above) then you should know that it's not ALL African Americans men but their Bad taste in men.

Most of these girls have no education and simply don't realize that blaming ALL Africans Amercian men for their bad life choices shouldn't mean blaming a whole race of men. I saw a provider who asked me the same question and mentioned to her that I was a professional and would like to disspell her mindset that seeing any African American men is a bad choice.

Needless to say she was very happy, we had an outstanding session and I tipped her.

I just wish more of the providers can see this post on RB

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12. "RE: Race matters"
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   >don't listen to them...take it from someone whose often
>discriminated because of race...simply say in your most calm
>most square voice that you are not a pimp...some girls may
>take it as a trick statement if you look all thugged out and
>what not...some girls who've been in situations with such
>and can handle themselves may take a chance and speak to
>you...i've dated a couple of blacks who have looked thugged
>out and have asked them straight up if they were pimps and
>if they said no...all was game because i wasn't out of
>pocket...for some girls that have been in the game...they
>can spot a pimp from a mile away so if you just have that
>aura about you then no one will speak to you...but like i
>said...try approaching one with your most calm most square
>voice and let them know as they walk away that you are not a
>pimp...trust...you'll have a better chance at getting
>someone's attention.


This right here is the perfect reason to legalize prostitution in this country, and it was a shame SF didn't when they had the chance. Look if someone wants to pay for a little time with a lady, and both are consenting, then I don't see what the big deal is? Why is it anyone else's business how I chose to live out my sex life?

The pimps ruin things for everybody. The girls, the johns, they are the only negative aspect of this field. I just wish that prostitution was legalized and they gave the girls rooms to work in cities similar to Amsterdam. Then instead of the money going to street PIMPS, it will end up going to Government Pimps with at least the hope that some of that money can go to fixing schools, etc.

It may be a crazy idea I have, but I just don't see why we should criminalize it, so long as the girls play safe and by the rules, as do the johns.


-Stoots

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6. "RE: Race matters"
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Maybe she was just worried that you fellas pack too much meat? Not every girl wants to be split in half by a monster cock. Just tell her you are average size (if true) and a yuppie and maybe she'll still see you. Sorry that happened to you but there are worse things in life than being well-endowed!

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juicylady
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7. "RE: Race matters"
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   hahahaha...Darren C...you know that is not the case unless he was asking for some back door action...quit trying to discourage his search...lol...keep trying and follow MY advice...i guarantee you'll have better luck...lol

...just a thought...

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8. "RE: Race matters"
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   LOL, just tell them that you are "mixed". Or speak in a fake Spanish accent and tell them that you're Cuban.

But I think juicylady has the best advice for you, try acting like Bill Cosby.

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13. "RE: Race matters"
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   lol. my African American buddy cracked me up when he told me that after telling some girl the hackneyed "once you go black you do not go back" she retorted "but once you go white you stay tight"

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bigsplash
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14. "RE: Race matters"
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   Even steve urkel has a huge penis because even then the sw thought I was LE or they didn't want to be spread that wide lol.

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21. "RE: Race matters"
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   lol **MS.ZARIA GoODS**

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Ho_Hunter
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10. "RE: Race matters"
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   The girl you did date... tell her you will pay her $10 for every girl she can find that you have a successful date with. Explain what quality of girls you will date, and soon enough you be turning girls away left and right.

If you pay a referral fee to a second girl, try to make sure girl-1 and 2 don't run in the same group. Else you don't expand very effectively.

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11. "RE: Race matters"
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I've only had this happen to me on a couple of occasions. It kinda bothered me until another girl told me that some pimps (don't allow) their girls to do Black Men. I don't know how true that is but, that's what I was told??

What's strange to me is, "How is it that women claim to not want to have anything to do with pimps, yet nearly all of them HAVE pimps"

The question I always ask myself is, "Would I (want) to spend my $$ with any girl that had an issue with my color?" Especially when there are SO MANY that only care about the "color or MONEY"

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15. "RE: Race matters"
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hey... the 10 dollar referral fee sounds like a great idea!!!!


"once you go white you stay tight" LMAO...I may use that.

"Can't Spell - Butt sure can DAYT"

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16. "RE: Race matters"
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   Am I just crazy or can that $10 referral fee get expensive? I think it is important to just go out there, follow the rules on this board, and hopefully get a date.

I have had a lot of girls turn me down on dates, just because I am a little young for this game. I mean just because I enjoy the thrill of the streets at a young age, some really hot girls won't give me the time of day. I bet it is because some girls go with older guys, because they are less vulnerable with them. That's fine, I guess, but I just think I have been passed up on some dates due to my age.

Race is a whole other issue though. I hope most of the girls on the street don't discriminate.

-Stoots

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blakcreo50
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17. "RE: Race matters"
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   Inbox me and I'll give you some pointers. I never really had that problem.

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hargow20
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18. "RE: Race matters"
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   Personally I have never dated a BSW because they simply do not attract me.

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20. "RE: Race matters"
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<Personally I have never dated a BSW because they simply do not attract me. >


OMG a alternate universe... talk about making dating really difficult in this neighborhood!


"Can't Spell - Butt sure can DAYT"

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19. "RE: Race matters"
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   Its the pimps..... try 100% independent girls

BTW about half the guys I see are black and I haven't had a problem with any of them

Except One time in the TL i got in the car with this black guy about 70 yrs old and he told me who could take me to the east coast and show me how to really get money blah blah blah pimp rhymes.... He didn't look like a pimp it was hilarious

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22. "RE: Race matters"
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   In my opinion you dont do any of that, all of it would just seem like your hiding something to some lady's. Your best bet would be to just really be yourself, and if you do decide to say something crack a little joke "a weird joke"lol maybe even tell them where you work if you have i.d. tell them you can show it. Yes, i know that sounds like a bit much, but if you see a winning prize....Go Get It....also, i know all of this sucks for african american males, but just to clear the air its not only them ANY RACE can be a pimp and/or can harm you. Therefore everyone male or female has to just go with their instincts. It's the only way.

**MS.ZARIA GoODS**

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23. "an extra $50"
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Here's a girl who's figured it out...black men welcome, but it's an extra fifty bucks!

http://classifieds.myredbook.com/classified.php?adid=189136

"Tell your sister to come down quick..."

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24. "RE: an extra $50"
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LAST EDITED ON 29-Aug-10 AT 12:36 PM (PST)
 
That bitch can kiss the fattest, blackest part of my ass!!

If thats not racist I dont know what is!!

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25. "RE: an extra $50"
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Yeah,that woke you up! Whew...and that almost made you lose your cool. The extra $50 would probably would be okay if she could spell...
What's "Vergine Greek"?

"Tell your sister to come down quick..."

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